Mu response to that is correlation is not necessarily causation. You take 1000 data points and fit a curve to the points. The mathematical function fit tom the data is predictive , it will accurately predict results between measures data points. You can extrapolate past the endpoints.
I look at the BB as a sophisticated curve fit to a narrow set of observational data. The originating event is extrapolation.
There are conceptual problems for me. There was no center at the BB and there is now no center. However a speherical boundary of some kind implies a center. What led to the initial conditions?
Imagine a nuclear explosion. As the event progresses a civilization evolves on a particle from the explosion. Astronomers on the particle see everything moving away, an apparent expansion. They may deduce there was an originating cataclysmic event. They can deduce nothing outside of their limits of observation.
Your objections all rely on analogies to your earth-bound experiences. As cosmology, and indeed, science in general, become more advanced, they become further and further from our normal experiences. Thus, they all rely exclusively on mathematics. Analogies are useful, so long as you do not mistake the analogy for the thing so described. Yes, it is hard for us to imagine expansion without a center. No, that does not mean it can't occur. Your conceptual failings do not invalidate the model. That there is some dispute over what happened does not invalidate the model. There are a lot more data points than 1000, as you say. Mathematically, the certainty is quite high. The idea that the beginning was a cataclysmic event is just someone's analogy, a popular illustration of the model. Don't get hung up about it. The model has not quite reached the moment of origin, and does not have anything to say about the pre-existing states. This is not a problem with the model.