DrZoidberg said:
If we continue to treat Gypsies as nothing but thieves I think we should be honest with ourselves that the main driver for it is that we want them to remain thieves.
You're saying you want Gypsies to remain thieves. You don't actually want gypsies to remain thieves, do you? So why did you write what you wrote?
Just read it a couple of times. I didn't miss-write
I didn't say you miswrote. If miswriting were all it was I wouldn't have made an issue of it.
"If we continue to treat Gypsies as nothing but thieves" is a lot like "Have you stopped beating your wife yet?". It presupposes a wrongdoing -- that "we" treat Gypsies as nothing but thieves. "We" is a
first-person plural pronoun. It means "Some other people and I". What you wrote is therefore a confession to being one of the people who treats Gypsies as nothing but thieves. You are in effect thereby claiming first-hand knowledge of what motivates people to treat Gypsies as nothing but thieves. Well, are you in point of fact one of the people who treats Gypsies as nothing but thieves? Do you in point of fact want Gypsies to remain thieves? I don't believe you are and I don't believe you do.
So why did you write "we" when English has a perfectly good third-person plural pronoun? What you actually meant appears to have been "If certain bad people I have in mind continue to treat Gypsies as nothing but thieves I think they should be honest with themselves that the main driver for it is that they want them to remain thieves." If you'd written it that way then it wouldn't contain the false implication that you have first-hand knowledge of their motivation. And it wouldn't contain the rhetorical flourish of associating yourself with them, creating the illusion that you're criticizing your in-group. You're criticizing your out-group, just like everybody else who thinks up the nastiest and most irrational motive he can think of and imputes it to those he disapproves of.
The notion that the people who continue to treat Gypsies as nothing but thieves do so mainly because they want them to remain thieves is ridiculous. It is not realistic human psychology, and it is not an evidence-based hypothesis. It's just ordinary out-group abuse. The people who continue to treat Gypsies as nothing but thieves do so mainly because they were taught to treat Gypsies that way by their culture and never gave five seconds of thought either to whether some particular Gypsy they treated that way personally deserved it or to what impact treating him that way would have on his future inclination to steal.
It's the same reason I made an issue of your earlier post, when you wrote "Maybe they're taught to steal because they're taught that everybody steals from them? Which historically is true. What about the rest of us stop stealing from them for a while their culture might change?" Wrong! It is not "historically true" that everybody steals from Gypsies. Most people never stole anything from a Gypsy in their lives. If the reason so many Gypsies steal in Romania really is because their culture teaches them that all the ethnic Romanians steal from Gypsies, that means Gypsy culture is
racist. That means their culture is teaching Gypsies to think of out-group members as interchangeable parts instead of individuals, the same way southern redneck culture in America teaches good-ol-boys to think of black people as interchangeable parts instead of individuals.
You don't normally appear to regard someone's racism as an extenuating circumstance; why do you treat the racism of Gypsies as an extenuating circumstance? If it's up to the ethnic Romanians to patiently put up with being stolen from by Gypsies and blame their fellow ethnic Romanians for it, why isn't it up to the Gypsies to patiently put up with being stolen from by ethnic Romanians and blame their fellow Gypsies for it? Shouldn't the Gypsies say "What about we Gypsies stop stealing from ethnic Romanians for a while and their culture might change?"?