untermensche
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Seeing the event is seeing the event.
But the event can appear differently depending on your frame of reference.
People with color blindness are looking at the exact same thing you are. They are seeing it differently though.
To have a relative view of something requires there be something to view.
Do you know what the light-cone of a position (in space time) is? It is the cone that is traced by all possible light paths from a specific position in space-time. In 2d with time as z-axis this will look as a cone with apex in origo and open upward, adding light that will end in the position and you get another cone opened downward.
What is the significance of this "double" cone?
Reflect on this:
"An event judged to be in the light cone by one observer, will also be judged to be in the same light cone by all other observers, no matter their frame of reference."
This is your "objective" property you are searching for.
Note that the order of events that does not have this relationship can then differ for different observers.
And no, it has nothing to do with "different viewpoint".
You can be at the exact same time and position and observe very different scenarios, only because of your different velocities.
Wether the pole is inside or not inside the tunnel depends on your speed.
What you are talking about is the "relativity of simultaneity".
I know Wikipedia is not the final word on anything but this is what is written in the relativity of simultaneity section.
According to the special theory of relativity, it is impossible to say in an absolute sense that two distinct events occur at the same time if those events are separated in space.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Relativity_of_simultaneity
You seem to be implying that it is in indeed possible to say that two distinct events occur at the same time while those events are separated in space.
I think you are arguing against our current understanding of relativity.