I've been noticing lately the commonality of Narcissists who look like they're always or often squinting. What do you think?
It may of course be confirmation bias (hence my post here to discuss and dissect), but it interested me.
I did some googling to see if it's true and no obvious literature came up. But on the act of squinting tiself, I could see why it might be a habit for those who, as a group, tend to feel like any discussion is an attack on them.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/spycatcher/200912/the-body-language-the-eyes
Squinting like a predator, maybe, or like a cornered animal. Hmmmm.
It may of course be confirmation bias (hence my post here to discuss and dissect), but it interested me.
I did some googling to see if it's true and no obvious literature came up. But on the act of squinting tiself, I could see why it might be a habit for those who, as a group, tend to feel like any discussion is an attack on them.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/spycatcher/200912/the-body-language-the-eyes
I look at the eyes principally to tell me when someone is comfortable and relaxed. I also look at the eyes to tell me when someone is suddenly troubled by a subject or an event. Immediately I will see the orbits narrow, what I call the Clint Eastwood effect (remember him in those Italian Westerns right before he was going to shoot, he always squinted). Squinting or the narrowing of the eye orbits indicates, very accurately, discomfort, stress, anger, or issues. I have capitalized on this behavior in negotiations as opposing counsel read each paragraph out loud; we could see which articles in the document were going to be problematic by the squinting of the eyes at each truculent juncture. This behavior is obviously millions of years old and it very elegantly communicates how we feel precisely at that moment.
Squinting like a predator, maybe, or like a cornered animal. Hmmmm.