Jaecp
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Metaphor said:Uh, no. Men, as a group, have higher salaries than women, as a group. Not every man is paid better than every woman, which is what your usage of 'across the board' implies.
I don't know where you work, but my salary does not go into a pool with all the other men in the workplace and then redistributed on an equal basis. The men that were aggressive in negotiating do not compensate the men who are less aggressive.
We've been talking about group averages this whole time...
There is no redistribution happening here man. A man is not paid less at this company because a woman makes more. Both are going up.
No, there are company funds that go to 'pay rises', not 'men's pay rises'. No chunk of money is solely singled out for the use of men in the same way it is for women.
Yes, and that pool of money is open to the men. How about instead of trying to be combative you argue your core point?
No, the men aren't being 'singled out' ie treated on an individual basis -- that's the fucking problem -- they're being discriminated against as a group. Please keep up.
Men are being denied automatic salary reviews. All women will have a salary review when a man around them is promoted and no men will. This can only result in women either staying on the same salary or getting more.
Is this the argument now? Men are being denied automatic salary reviews? Time to march on Washington!
The policy treats every man as being an aggressive negotiator who does not need 'help', and it treats every woman as a weak negotiator who requires 'help'. That is the implication of their policy.
Imagine a grocery store who needed shelf stackers to be 175cm or taller so that they did not need to use equipment to reach and stack the top shelf. The grocery store could advertise for people 175cm or taller, which makes perfect sense. Or, it could say 'men only', reasoning that most men are over 175cm and most women are under it, ignoring and not caring about the fact that some women are over 175cm and could also shelf stack.
You might not mind being discriminated against as an indistinguishable unit of whatever group someone's assigned you to, but I do.
No, it treats them as groups. Policy, unfortunately, is written about groups and not individuals. No policy is going to be perfect, even the successful ones. And you still aren't being discriminated against. You aren't losing out because another group succeeds.
Yeah, I kinda fucking know that's not how doctors work. That's the fucking point. It would be terrible if doctors did work that way.
In my analogy it worked liked doctors actually do and in yours they didn't. So my example worked and yours was a fantasy designed to reinforce your biases.
You utter 'us boys' as if anything you said applies to all boys. Looking at your own situation and thinking that everyone who shares the same gender has it the same is an idiotic and condescending attitude. I don't belong to your 'us boys club' but I'm treated as if all the benefits of it have flowed to me anyway.
This is getting repetative said:What part of tend to be is any way me talking about you as an individual? Calm the hell down.
I've already done so comprehensively. Their stated goal is to reduce the gender gap. The policies were introduced to reduce the gender gap. The policies discriminate against men in order to reduce the gender gap.
Any complaints are not an argument.
I did not suggest women get an 'automatic pay rise'. They don't. They get an automatic review which is denied to men. This review could either leave their salaries unchanged or it could increase them.
You did, actually, try and keep up with your own side of this, at least
You said:It makes me a 'loser' to be singled out by gender and denied a pay rise because I'm not a woman.
Right here you suggested it. You not getting a pay raise because of your gender and the entire thrust of the OP is woman getting something without having to work at it.
I have not uttered a single contradictory position. You'll point one out if you think I have one.
Believe what you want. I've been pointing most of them out.
It beggars belief that you need to find what you consider proof that there is a single man in the universe whose salary might be higher if he had more aggressive negotiation skills.
That wasn't the goal
Statistics on the wage gap consider full time work categorically without any reference to the number of hours worked, and there is a known difference in the number of hours worked between genders for men and women. Can you guess which gender, as a group, logs more average hours?
I don't need to guess.
Yes, both in the composition of part time vs full time work, and in the number of hours worked when classified at full time.
Awesome, maybe you can do something with that?
Oy vey. It was never my proposed solution to make men work less. I proposed that 'solution' as an absurd but logical outcome of being so pearl-clutchingly bothered that women choose to work part time more often than men.
Under the company's proposed 'solution', the following occurs:
i) Women get their salaries reviewed periodically, resulting in underpaid women getting paid fairly. Men never get their salaries automatically reviewed, meaning underpaid men receive no redress for the unfair situation.*
ii) If someone gets a payrise and they are a man, this will trigger automatic reviews (with only positive or neutral outcomes possible) of his female teammates. Any woman who gets a payrise does not trigger the automatic review of her female teammates.
This is so perverse that it means women should be encouraging the men in their team to seek a payrise because it will trigger a benefit for them, but they've got no incentive to encourage a woman to go for a payrise.
Also, resources are finite. Any resources earmarked solely for one gender are literally taking away resources from another gender. If you don't understand arithmetic perhaps you need to get out some primary school textbooks.
Maybe you don't care that you're discriminated against because of your gender. I do care. I am not my gender.
Cool, you've made your argument now make me care.
Also, it's an even better outcome for that woman if she negotiates that salary herself as she'll get paid more, faster instead of having to wait for this policy to kick in. It's a stopgap, not a permanently solution and, like any policy, not going to entirely solve all problems related to it. It does address the issue and help the targeted problem.
And the targeted problem is that, across the board and with statistics factoring everything they can, woman get paid less than their male equivalents.
I'm sorry that the policy doesn't address cowardly men who don't know how to negotiate a salary for themselves. Perhaps instead of complaining that some woman gets paid more at some company than she would at a clueless company you could go read a book on negotiating a better salary?