I'll give you ambitious, since like tends to attract like. But the rest is just image and assumption. The rest of the world want to see them as intelligent and talented. Journalists will low ball questions to them, cut material to make them look as good as possible. It's what viewers and expect and will be angry if they don't get. It's a cooperative theatre we're all a participant in. We do the same with the Swedish king.
Such nonsense. What about the secret service? If they can keep the president alive, they can keep the presidents wife alive.
Then it is absolutely true that many deals and much understanding is reached at dinner tables and that spouses often have profound influence on one another. The ladies often engage in ‘softer’ diplomacy.
Again... pure assumption. JFK barely met Jackie other than in photo ops. When he wasn't working he was too busy feeding his sex addiction and banging hot ladies in his fuck room.
I think it's a safe assumption that all presidents marriages strain when they're in office. It's a tough job and their husbands won't have time for them.
Some First Ladies are more prominently featured. Who remembers anything about Laura Bush except that she killed a guy? Or Pat Nixon? Or Mamie Eisenhower? Barbara Bush? As for celebrity being associated with the White House, that really began with the Regans who were indeed celebrities. Hillary Clinton was obviously a very involved presidential spouse whose education and ambition helped expand her role. Michelle Obama’s prominence was more the fact that they were the first black family to occupy the White House. Of course, she’s extremely intelligent, articulate and well educated.
She had a team dedicated to make her look good. Obama couldn't afford Michelle talking off the top of her head and doing her own thing. She has to be, by necessity, an accessory to the president. She has to be treated like a pet and told what to say. So I'm sure she was. There's no way to include the presidents spouse into the president's public image and not turn it insidious. I think it's an evil practice. It'll hurt these women, and all women. As well as men.
The whole thing about presenting a wholesome perfect family at the head of the country is not good. It puts pressure on everybody to have a perfect family. Which is just made worse when everybody knows that the presidential image is a lie. Because it has to be. I honestly think it's an evil practice.