Tone note: By the way, all following is conversational and friendly. I’m not very good at writing out ideas and having it convey that i’m leaning back drinking wine and smiling at you, so picture that as you read, please.
Nephew said:
While I am concerned for the life of those aborted babies, I'm not concerned for their souls. I'm concerned for the souls of those who allow them to be murdered, or who do the murdering.
It seems to me that acording to your bible you should not worry at all.
1. The person could repent later and all will be fine
Or
2. Even if they go to hell and burn forever, you, in heaven will not care. Your bible promises you that you will have no cares or worries. So clearly God doesn’t want you to be concerned over them.
Objectively, by the way, is most usefully defined as that which is measureable or observable by anyone who approaches regardless of their involvement. Ice is _objectively_ colder than water. A three story building is _objectively_ taller than a one-story. Whereas it might be _subjectively_ better looking.
So using that word with its useful definition, you were comparing things that were subjective (opinion) not objective (fact, measurable, not disputable)
Fetus’ happiness:
You’ve talk somewhat about happiness and why it should drive things. Fetuses don’t have a brain to be happy or not. Not for most of the pregnancy. And nearly 100% of abortions after that point are done for extreme medical rescue or compassion reasons.
So talking about those early ones: if there is no brain formed, what happiness is being harmed? What cells, _exactly_ are being used to experience unhappiness?
The arbitrariness of the moment of birth:
Now here’s a thing that neither of you _men_ have touched on. The existence of the woman whose body is being used to host the fetus.
Are we so disposable to you? Are we worth so little?
The objective truth is (the _fact_ is) in no case anywhere in America is it acceptable to force a person to donate any part of their blood or body against their will, for any reason, under any circumstances. Ever.
You are saying that your religion would like to make the exception, but only for women, that if another being needs her body to stay alive, she is REQUIRED by your religion, to give it.
An astute observer will note that none of those in your religion seek similar laws to require bone marrow or kidney testing to force all people who are able to save a life to, in fact, donate a piece of their body whether they want to or not, whether their future is harmed or not, whether their health is at risk or not.
So ask yourself whether you are comfortable discussing the “morality” of enslaving certain people in the population to the whim of your church to do something that you will not do? This is always an interesting thought exercise, to suddenly think about the implications of forcefully enslaving women to be organ donors when you haven’t even established that their enslavement is even to a viable human. To suddenly realize there is a human at stake besides the fetus. (Believe me, _we_ know!)
Ask yourself if you are comfortable with the arbitrary decision to force only women to be these organ slaves when you yourself could have already donated kidneys, skin, liver, bone marrow or more? Do you fear now for your own soul - as a murderer - for witholding the organs others needed for life?
It is interesting to think of how long you debated without realizing there is a woman there, with a right to say “no,” whether the fetus has personhood or not. And that the matter of minutes before birth vs minutes after birth, that is, enslaving her or not enslaving her is to you “just arbitrary” when it fact it is everything to her; her life, her health, her future.