To me the key point is that to people like rhutchin, Ed, and Tigers!, eternal conscious torment is an entirely reasonable act by their god.
It is entirely reasonable that God establish standards for entry into heaven. Failure to meet those standards means failure to enter heaven (and reside in eternal conscious torment). God has explained all this in the Bible. I don't see that there should be an issue with this - other than that people just don't like that system.
I think the "issue" with your eternal torment for the masses is that most people find the construct rather vile and depraved, not that people can't see the construct (as one of several possible interpretations) within the Christian Bible.
There are a lot of people who think God just saves everyone just because he ought to. Obviously, anyone who objects to being held accountable for their actions and then to have their actions judged would think that such judgment is vile and depraved. God describes such people as vile and depraved. So, I guess it depends on one's perspective.
Anywho, it seems you still have quandaries regarding 2 constructs within your theology (not that either one devastates general Christian theology, as there are many sects that don't think your way).
Hellfire and brimstone for the masses: Your God will have to give humans some form of lobotomy, in order for humans not to mourn, cry, or be in emotional pain by knowing/seeing their loved ones (mothers, or fathers, or sons, or daughters, or brothers, or sisters, or grandchildren) are suffering within eternal conscious torment. Can you honestly tell me that you have no relatives (or have Christian friends that would face this) that you suspect won't make the cut within your own theological construct? Yeah, maybe 60 or 70 years ago, most everyone at least pretended to be Christian, as social pressures would make it difficult to not at least pretend. So either, you and all your saved brethren, will need extensive lobotomies to radically change how humans think/behave, or your "eternal torment for the masses" construct is flawed. I really don't see another way out of this theological box considering Rev 21:4.
Rev 21:4 "He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away."
With OSAS: You still need to have a host of people either be liars (no I’m not asking you to get into trouble on the board for calling myself or any others a liar) in how they describe their lengthy and fervent Christian past. Atheos has described his past of being a preacher/minister on this board, is another example beyond my details of post #65. Or your construct requires such people to be capable of fooling themselves for even decades. But that would make a mockery of the notion of assurance of salvation, as people would then not be able to even trust their own feelings and thoughts. That aspect really doesn't help your theology much. Of course, you could also modify your OSAS dogma to just let those who walked away from faith, still getting that fabulous E-ticket; or even just dump the OSAS notion all together. Wouldn't that be a crack up, having people arriving at the pearly gates that spent later decades scoffing at the God notion? Of course we would be getting the same required lobotomy, so we'd also being happy singing kumbaya for the 4,882,390,388,449,538,299,288 time.
Or God can allow those in heaven to see those in hell as He sees them. No lobotomy necessary; just the opening of a person's eyes to see others as they really are.
Some have already pointed out the issue of infinite punishment for a finite crime. Most people have little or no problem with being held accountable for their actions; we do it all the time with fines, restrictions, prisons, and even sometimes a quick execution. But to infinitely torment someone for simply not believing in a fable, is hardly accountability.
A tale I created on the old board that I thought was fitting…
Say you have 2 sons. The good son is Bob. He got good grades in school; did his chores w/o being reminded much; went to college; found a nice wife; and now has provided you with 2 cute grand children.
The bad son is Sid. He got very mediocre grades in school; got caught using drugs; got a girl pregnant and dumped her; didn't go to college; only has periodic work; bummed money off of you and didn't pay it back; he finally went to another city after telling you to F-off; you suspect he also now deals in drugs; and now you haven't spoken to him in 10 years.
You have a inheritance of say $4,000,000 that you want to will out, as you don't believe your heart will last a whole lot longer, 5 years after your triple bypass. Do you give it all to the good son Bob and his family? Do you cut off your worthless son Sid? Yeah, something like that might be understandable.
HOWEVER, what I don't expect that you would do is take half the inheritance, and hire a team to go out and hunt down your bad son Sid. Nor would your team be paid to merely snuff him out. Nooooooooo!!! That would be far too nice. Your team takes him back to an old house in the woods, where you have set up a special basement. And there you have hired a guy named Lucifer to make sport of Sid's pathetic life. This basement has all sorts of item to torture Sid, but also medical equipment to try and keep him alive. So Lucifer manages to spend 10 years torturing your son Sid, and monthly sends you DVD's so you can see that you got your money's worth...
Even with the above cringe worthy tale, it still pales when compared to the new and improved eternal Auschwitz your loving father has prepared for the masses, based upon the theology you cleave upon. How do you call this construct of yours, a "loving father"? Many words come to my mind, but "loving" ain't even in the ball park!
Could you really hire someone to torture your son Sid? Could you even hire someone to kill your own son, let alone any other human that merely wanted nothing to do with you? I could understand your willingness to hire someone to kill someone like Hitler. But that is still probably just a few minutes of intense pain, and then nothing. Could you even hire someone to torture a person like Hitler? Could you do it yourself? Somehow I guess that all your answers to my questions in this paragraph are an easy "NO WAY". Funny how you seem to have no problem cleaving to a theology that purports to do far more than you could ever imagine yourself doing...but ah, your God will open your eyes so somehow this will all magically be just peachy…yeah right.
I could fathom a "loving god/father" putting seriously bad/evil people to a permanent sleep/death. And many Christians have this as part of their theology, as they cannot balance "loving father" with "eternal suffering".