I have a few quibbles. First of all, at least some of the allegations, although not the most serious ones against DeGrasse Tyson were sufficiently public 6 months ago that I was aware of them, and I don't consider myself particularly 'in the know.' For the most part, they were trivial and he's a physicist making him relatively low radar. The drugged rape allegation is obviously the most serious one and will be problematic to prove. Unless something terrible is proven, I don't think he'll endure any lasting harm, aside from some women speaking badly about him and avoiding him. FWIW, some men speak badly about women and women can face serious consequences because of that.
Well, the only time I heard of it was the recent news and that is being handled appropriately.
A bad date is when your date picks his nose, insults the waitstaff and vomits in the cab. According to his accuser, Aziz Ansari pressured a woman into performing sex acts on him despite her objections/disinclination to 'service' him. At best, he was insensitive and clueless. This was more than a 'bad date' but probably less than sexual assault. What I find upsetting is that men seem to think think this is just a bad date or sex that the woman regrets. It's more than that. It's sex that a woman felt a great deal of pressure to perform and got not much out of except feelings of fear and shame. There are two parts to this: Women must learn to stand up for themselves much better than some of them do and to feel no shame or fear over turning down requests for sex. There is still too much pressure on women to put out in return for dinner or drinks or simply for being nice to her.
That has to stop. Men are unlikely to stop feeling entitled to whatever they demand from a woman so that's something that women will need to work harder on. The other part that men don't seem to get is that they actually need to pay attention to women's responses prior to and during sex to gauge whether the men's advances or actions are welcome or pleasurable or if she's simply tolerating it because she's too polite or too afraid to decline or exit. Sex is supposed to be mutual and mutually pleasurable. That means you need to pay attention and not just think with what's in your pants.
Well, if he didn't force her to do anything unconsensual or do it at a workplace, it's still not particularly related to this conversation and given the present state of his career, it looks like most join me in not finding it relevant.
For decades, men have written on bathroom walls the names/ phone numbers of women who would have casual sex and have shared the information wide and far. Increasingly, women are sharing information about men who push sexual contact, sexually assault and rape other women--men to avoid. Women are actually getting in trouble for creating and sharing those lists. https://www.motherjones.com/politics/2018/10/shitty-media-men-moira-donegan-andrew-miltenberg/
Well ... good. They should get in trouble for creating and sharing these lists. You can't just go around labeling people are criminals. If there's credible evidence of sexual harassment or assault by these men, report them for it. If there's not, don't label them as such without being able to back it up. It's understandable putting something like that together in the opening days of the #MeToo movement a year ago when the floodgates opened and nobody was really sure how to talk about or deal with these accusations, but it would be way the fuck out of line today and any lawsuits against similar lists should be successful.
If Dr Z and a bunch of his male executive friends put together and pass around a list of women in the company who make fake sexual harassment claims so they can make a point of avoiding being alone in a room or elevator with them so as to not have their careers destroyed by lies or a group of white executives put together a list of the black people in the company who are thieves so they can make sure they're not left alone anywhere that has expensive equipment, they would be properly liable in the defamation suits which get filed if those lists become public and the defense of "Hey, nobody except us was ever supposed to see them" would not be considered a defense.