pyramidhead, I am a child of the 60s/70s. I can sympathize with what you are thinking through.
I spent 30 years in engineering and saw all kinds of social group dynamics. The kind of family cooperation you talk about only works in small groups. As size and complexity grows hierarchical structures natural evolve. I have seen it happen. When it does not evolve as com[plecity grows it becomes design by committee which never reaches a conclusion and agreement. Witness Congress.
There are a few communes still around the last time I checked. The Farm in Tenn was started by a guy named Stephen Gaskin. The original history was not on the web site last time I looked. Rules evolved. If you had sex you were engaged. If a woman got pregnant you were married. It stared out with hippies, drugs, back to the land.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Farm_(Tennessee)
They devoped a successful farm and developed good relations with neighbors. They opened a sate certified school.
Israel was founded as a socialist state based on collectives or kibutz. Back in the 70s I attend a presentation by an Israeli looking for students to summer on a kibbutz. There were farming and industrial kibbutz. The one he was from had a pool, amenities, and a car pool where you could check out a car. Meals were in common. What put me off was people carrying assault rifles.
It works in a limited system. Soviet and Chinese collectivization failed miserably. Mass starvation. When China alloed framers to grow and sell produce above the state quota agricultural production grew.
In a broad sense our system is libertarian. The economy runs mostly by itself without intervention or direct controls. Itruns on voluntary cooperation. When you fully comprehend it it can be scary in a way. It all seems to work on a mass scale.
The boss/worker master/slave comparison is more 19th century. Modern business is made up of people. What goes on today requires hierarchical structure.
Keep in mind the IRA of a bus drivel based in in investment in business. It is all linked in a complex dynamic, owner-worker is a meaningless view.
There are positives and negatives. On the plus side if you do not like the cold Northeast you can move to the warm Southwest if you want. There are no controls. I knew people in the 70s who worked the winter and spent the summer in places like Yosemite rock climbing. There is the old movie Endless Summer about beach bums who spend their time surfing around the world. \\In your system could that happen? Can some 20 year old make a living snowboarding or skateboarding?
Our system definitely maximizes freedom to choose a path.
All large scale collectivization experiments have ended in limiting choice of life path.
The challenge for the comm8ng generations is how to maintain that while keeping the system balanced. Personally I do not think the system can last. The wealth concentration at the top sooner or later will Crete enough anger that instability will occur.
On the plus side the material goods the average person has today is staggering compared to when I was born. Average folks here in Seattle routinely go to Las Vegas or Hawaii. Circa 1900 being wealthy meant hot water, hot food, good water, heat, and good clothes and shelter.
When you make a critique you have to take a very broad view, not just marxisst rhetoric.
Power to the people and I'll see you on the barricade comrade...