I disagree that it is pedantic to say 'the laws in Australia affect every person in Australia', even if most people never act, or want to act, in a way that is contrary to the law.
Using pedantry to defend pedantry is truly ironic.
I must suck hard at virtue signalling then, since the idea of virtue signalling is to receive approval for your stated beliefs. I certainly did not expect approval from the regulars on this board for expressing disapproval of needless sex-based discrimination from the government. I didn't expect it, and I didn't get it.
The point of virtue signalling is denoted by its name - signal one's moral correctness/virtue. You are very prolific at the signalling. But as your response shows, you suck at applying rules of reason to your views.
The evidence for whether someone is just being virtuous versus just virtue signalling is, to me the presence (or in this case absence) of uniformity in application.
For instance, Metaphor virtue-signals, but has no actual virtue. This is apparent to me by the lack of arguement against those systems of discrimination that harm anyone other than men specifically (one recent thread notwithstanding; though it was followed up with this one). They only do it on behalf of men.
Then "the leftists" come in here and point out that this policy is a step in the right direction! Now, people who wish to identify with the population that socially signal having-their-shit-togetherness with personal presentation can do that. It isn't even really a question, culturally, whether "men at large" can signal that way; they can't. It in fact signals the inverse.
But us on the left have also been pretty open that we find it ridiculous that people can't just select which uniform standard and run with it. It IS sexist. The fact that I can identify that fact acts as an internal indication to myself that I'm not just being a virtue signaller, and trying my best to actually have virtue.
I do think this will make things harder for women in the military insofar as it pushes expectations on them. It doesn't let them attain "having their shit together" without the spectre of beatification.
It's not a perfect solution. We recognize that. It needs more work, and incrementalization is a bitch.
But here we have someone pissing on the only increment that was attainable rather than applauding it while noting we still need to keep moving and being honest about the final destination.