Yes, these military standards discriminate against men. I know recruiting and retaining quality personnel is a problem right now. And, in the grand scheme of real problems within the military right now, this ranks way below the problem of suicides and rape.
So forgive me if this causes me to yawn.
I agree with Laughing Dog, there are much bigger fish to fry.
This:
https://www.nytimes.com/2021/02/05/world/asia/china-masculinity-schoolboys.html should be a much bigger concern for the military. In order to remain competitive our military actually needs masculine men. And the Democrat party,their identity politics, and other do gooders are rapidly ruining our next generation of boys.
In order to remain competitive?
Who, exactly, do you see the US military as being 'competitive' with?
The US Armed Forces could lose 90% of their current capability, and STILL be able to kick the arses of the next biggest national military force.
The US military is massively larger and more powerful than it could possibly need to be for war fighting. Its obscene bloatedness way beyond what would be needed to defend the USA, her allies, and her global interests, is a consequence of these roles being only secondary to the unstated real purpose of the vast spending that such a force entails.
Every capital based economy needs a mechanism to put money back in at the lowest consumer level. A full employment strategy coupled with a generous minimum wage and high pay levels for workers across the board can achieve this, but that's politically unacceptable, so it's not going to happen.
In the presence of widespread unemployment, and/or paltry wages, another mechanism to get money to the poor is needed. The developed world typically has social spending mechanisms to do this - poor people are simply given money by the government.
But in the USA, this too is politically unacceptable. So they get poor people with no real job prospects, and recruit them into the military. It's a shockingly inefficient way for governments to funnel cash to the poor, but it's certainly better than nothing, and it allows the US economy to stagger onwards, without too many inconvenient corpses littering the highways and upsetting the sensibilities of the wealthy.
A lot about US military spending appears completely nonsensical, until you consider that it's benefits are focused not on defense, nor on prosecuting foreign wars, but on redistribution of wealth to the otherwise hopeless poverty stricken elements of US society.