Ford
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- Just don't knock on my door on a Saturday Morning
I've read a couple of the "love letters" that Natalie (allegedly) sent to Trump, and I'm reminded of a lesson that I learned early in my career as an on-air radio personality.
You do NOT engage the stalkers.
I lucked out in that I didn't have anything too extreme, but I worked with people who did. Fanatic listeners finding out where they lived and staking out the apartment building. Sending explicit photos. Boyfriends calling and threatening to come down to the station and get violent. Even if they're attractive (my super-fan was) you just don;'t, and if you run into them in real life (like I did) start looking for the exits. Whenever you engage them - even if it's to say "get the fuck away from me, you psycho" - they will take it as validation and redouble their efforts.
Ms. Harp is - and this should be a medical term if it isn't informally - cray cray. "Not something that ten years of good therapy won't make a small dent in" (and that's something a psychologist told me was used in the industry).
You'd think that someone who has been in the public eye for most of his life would know this, but Fragilego Mussolini never learned the lesson. And I realize that beauty is subjective, but Natalie is not the hottest woman on the planet. She's like a Hooter's waitress who works the day shift because she appeals to the Boomer guys on lunch break and that's about it.
You do NOT engage the stalkers.
I lucked out in that I didn't have anything too extreme, but I worked with people who did. Fanatic listeners finding out where they lived and staking out the apartment building. Sending explicit photos. Boyfriends calling and threatening to come down to the station and get violent. Even if they're attractive (my super-fan was) you just don;'t, and if you run into them in real life (like I did) start looking for the exits. Whenever you engage them - even if it's to say "get the fuck away from me, you psycho" - they will take it as validation and redouble their efforts.
Ms. Harp is - and this should be a medical term if it isn't informally - cray cray. "Not something that ten years of good therapy won't make a small dent in" (and that's something a psychologist told me was used in the industry).
You'd think that someone who has been in the public eye for most of his life would know this, but Fragilego Mussolini never learned the lesson. And I realize that beauty is subjective, but Natalie is not the hottest woman on the planet. She's like a Hooter's waitress who works the day shift because she appeals to the Boomer guys on lunch break and that's about it.