I recall a poster a few years back who repeatedly denied that there's nothing in an empty drawer. The misplaced logic was in treating nothing as if it was an actual something. To his mind, since there was no object that is referred to by the term, then it was false that there was nothing in an empty drawer.
What else is nothing if not the absence of something?
When we set out to discover whether we have free will, we need to understand that it's not something but rather the absence of something. Imagine a picture of a man, and next to this picture is another picture depicting a man behind a closed and locked cell. When comparing the two pictures, one picture can be thought of as confinement. The other (in comparative relation) depicts the absence of confinement.
When we observe someone acting because of compulsion, what we are not observing is someone acting of ones own free will. To observe someone acting of their own free will requires an observation that lacks compulsion. The man as depicted in the picture without a closed and locked cell has the ability to do as he pleases whereas the man depicted in the cell is compelled against his will. He wants to leave but is compelled to stay.
With that understanding of free will, let's turn to our children who we are taking to the ice cream shop. Your child wants vanilla flavored ice cream, just as my child does as well; you gave your child the option to choose between whatever flavor she wants. You did not compel her to choose vanilla. There was no pressure to choose vanilla. She freely chose vanilla.
My child wants vanilla flavored ice-cream, but I'm not allowing my child to have any ice-cream today because she refused to recite the "I love Trump pledge" that she's been taught to recite on demand.
The entire ordeal was videoed. I was there. You were there. We both know that your child was not compelled in her choice, and we both know I was a compelling force preventing my child from getting what she wanted.
My wife is about to watch the video. She does not know what choice your child made. It was never true that her choice was a necessary choice. It was contingent upon nothing involving compelling forces that made her act against what she wanted; that is of paramount importance. She could have chosen otherwise; our knowledge of the facts didn't cause the facts; the mechanics that went into her choice had no attached compelling forces.
If I'm clairvoyant, have a crystal ball, or am God himself, my knowledge of the truth does not and will not influence the mechanics of the choice that was or will be devoid of compelling forces. See, I'm privy to actual choices you will make; that doesn't mean you will be compelled in the future choices you will make; I just know what choices you're gonna make of your own free will. I've simply watched the video of life.
When my wife views our little ice-cream shop video, she too will know what happened--and I have a funny feeling she ain't gonna be happy with me.
I think I'm with you now. And I agree with DBT's response (though DBT and I do not agree on everything).
It's about labelling, in some ways, or more precisely labelling preferences.
Ultimately, and I think you'll agree, every act comes from...well, let's not call it compulsion perhaps because that word may be used to mean some aspect of our psychology in particular.....let's just say that every act is forced, by the laws of physics or what have you. 'You' don't get to freely choose...anything, ultimately (and DBT is talking about what we might call ultimate or actual free will). Sure, you can change your mind, or better still let's say your mind can change, but there's no you at the controls of that. It just really really feels like it.
Some people (mostly compatibilists) want to use the term 'free will' for what are imo those sophisticated capacities for agency that we do have (generalising here) because...well I'm not sure why they do that. But in essence what they mean, I think, is that there can be degrees of free will and that we have some, or some type or version. I prefer, at least in intellectual discussions, to treat 'free' in free will like the term 'perpetual' in 'perpetual motion', of which there aren't degrees.
Why? Am I an inflexible and unpragmatic pedant?
Possibly.
But I like to think it's not that. Imo, compatibilist free will (ie compatibilists use of the term) hides more than it reveals. I believe that most humans are fooled by their brains into believing they have certain capacities that are in fact illusory, and compatibilism seems to me to sweep this under the fudge carpet somewhat (Dennett is the classic example imo) but more to the point there is imo a lot of conflation and inaccuracy in play. See: almost anything untermensche says on the topic.
The example I like to offer is this. Does god exist? Ok, if we strip away from the definition of god any sort of supernatural or other dubious features we can end up (as incredibly I think some may even do) essentially calling the universe god. Is that useful? I don't think so. I think it retains a word...for the sake of retaining a word. But if you met a person using that definition, I think you'd have to agree and concede that god exists.