I describe coercion as one person having the power to command another.
You describe it as "not getting your way every time".
Quote me.
Your criticism of democratic rule is that it means some people won't get their way. The idea not able to gain a majority vote will not be implemented.
You have no other criticism.
Do you not understand the words "Quote me" or are you refusing to back up your claims about what I say? You seem determined to be the one to supply both sides of the debate. If you want to talk to yourself, why are you replying to me?
A coercive system is one where an individual or small group has all real power. They have the ultimate final say on anything.
It is not what people do with that power.
https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/coerce
Definition of coerce
transitive verb
1 : to compel to an act or choice
2 : to achieve by force or threat
3 : to restrain or dominate by force
Yes, it absolutely is what people do with that power. You have every right to speak your own private Humpty Dumpty language if that's what floats your boat, but that doesn't put the rest of us under any obligation to go along with your pretense that what you're speaking is English.
There were very charming Kings and many people loved them.
But it doesn't make monarchy less than a dictatorship.
And that doesn't make them the same either. Some monarchies have been dictatorships and some have not. For instance, France under Louis "L'etat c'est moi" XIV was a dictatorship. But England was never a dictatorship, except for a few years when Parliament abolished the monarchy and appointed Cromwell dictator. The times an English King thought he was dictator, he got Magna Carta forced down his throat, or got his illegal commands overturned by Chief Justice Coke's legal writs, or got overthrown and beheaded, or got fired by Parliament. Democracy is not the opposite of dictatorship. The opposite of dictatorship is rule of law.
I notice you simply snipped my example of a workers' co-op's elected manager coercing a secretary for sex. I take it you have no interest in thinking about that scenario. Like you said, ideology is the death of thinking.
Why is democracy preferable to dictatorship?
Because democracy is the worst of all forms of government, except for all the others that have ever been tried, and dictatorship is one of the others that have been tried. Duh. Democracy is preferable to dictatorship because it makes better decisions. Usually. Not always. It took an RPF dictatorship to end the genocide perpetrated by Rwanda's democratically elected government.
Another utter failure of the education system.
Because the job of the education system is to indoctrinate students to believe in whatever principles untermensche agrees with, rather than to think for ourselves?
Democracy is better because those wielding power have legitimacy.
They have the power because a majority thought they would be best.
So it would have been better if the elected leaders of Rwanda who the Hutu majority thought would be best had successfully wielded their power and murdered the entire Tutsi minority? Because they had legitimacy? And the Tutsis fighting for their lives did not have legitimacy, because only a minority thought Tutsis getting to go on living would be best? What, did the Tutsis have a moral obligation to just roll over and die? In order to "not get their way every time"? Are you even listening to yourself?
Why do you claim a majority thinking they would be best supplies legitimacy? The notion that legitimacy comes from how you gain power is a fixture of Supreme Wisher Command Theory. Some monarchists said the King was the legitimate ruler by Right of Conquest; others said it was because he was chosen by God; Hobbes said it was because our long-ago predecessors agreed to obey the King's long-ago predecessor. How is your theory any different from theirs, other than that you yanked out all their respective favorite Supreme Wishers and plugged your own favorite Supreme Wisher into the empty socket? If somebody tells me "Obey!", and I ask "Why?", and his mouthpieces come back at me with some historical story about how once he had no power and then he acquired power, how the heck does that even address my question? How is that any more of an answer than "The Lady of the Lake, her arm clad in the purest shimmering samite, held aloft Excalibur from the bosom of the water, signifying by divine providence that I, Arthur, was to carry Excalibur."? How do you get from "This
is how he got the boss job." to "You
ought to obey him."?
In my view, legitimacy comes not from how you
got power but from how you
use it. If you're using governmental power to secure people's unalienable rights to life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness then it's legitimate. If you're using it in a way that's destructive of these ends then it isn't legitimate and it's the right of the people to alter or to abolish it.
So why is your theory of legitimacy more reasonable than mine? Because you intone the word "majority" over and over like a religious mantra? Because you think the education system should have told me to shut up and believe whatever I'm told by my betters, such as untermensche? Because if a factory has 500 white workers and 301 of them vote to pay each of the 100 black workers three fifths of a white man's wage, then the black workers should just suck it up? Because the black workers' only criticism is that it means those 100 people won't get their way? The black workers put their idea of equal pay for equal work to a vote, but the idea was not able to gain a majority vote and will not be implemented? They have no other criticism?
In any event, how can you even talk about the wielders of power having "legitimacy" and call yourself an Anarchist? What, "No masters, no bosses except for legitimate ones."? That's got to be the greatest flip-flop since "All animals are equal, but some animals are more equal than others".