AthenaAwakened
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Well, this is part of the mystification of money, isn't it?
I teach two weeks each summer at a UU camp. In the evenings, the campers like to gather in the living room of main building on campus and have a discussion group. Every year, the most popular topic, even more popular than sex, is money. The kids are fascinated by it but their parents never talk to them about. Since the beginning of on line banking, I have had kids who don't know where their family bank is; because of debit cards, they can't balance a check book or count back change to a customer without a calculator. They can't tell you a ballpark figure of what their parents make, what a week's worth of groceries cost for their family, what the average electric bill is, none of that.
Parents would rather read aloud to a preschooler from Masters and Johnson than tell a middle schooler about budgeting and paying bills. And this unwritten rule about NOT talking about money follows these kids well into adulthood. So you wind up with an employee pool of people scared to talk about money and wondering why they don't make more.
I teach two weeks each summer at a UU camp. In the evenings, the campers like to gather in the living room of main building on campus and have a discussion group. Every year, the most popular topic, even more popular than sex, is money. The kids are fascinated by it but their parents never talk to them about. Since the beginning of on line banking, I have had kids who don't know where their family bank is; because of debit cards, they can't balance a check book or count back change to a customer without a calculator. They can't tell you a ballpark figure of what their parents make, what a week's worth of groceries cost for their family, what the average electric bill is, none of that.
Parents would rather read aloud to a preschooler from Masters and Johnson than tell a middle schooler about budgeting and paying bills. And this unwritten rule about NOT talking about money follows these kids well into adulthood. So you wind up with an employee pool of people scared to talk about money and wondering why they don't make more.