Are you talking about the deliberate targeting of vegan feminists for nefarious purposes, or regular dating? Because if it's the latter, we used to call that getting to know the real person behind the facade.
I guess that notion is too old fashioned for modern social media.
So there is this funny community on Reddit called "r/SelfAwareWolves"
Anyway, it appears Trausti has correctly identified a phenomena that happens in the universe: some people lie fluently to get what they want, and don't care about the consequences of their utterances outside of that context of "getting what they want".
See: the "Stolen Election" bullshit that some people here fanned the flames of
