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So who on earth claimed "should have" had anything to do with that? It doesn't take "should have" to make race a factor; it only takes "would have". His decision that her behavior was because he was black appears to have made race a factor. It likely would have gone down differently if she'd been black or if he'd been white because then he wouldn't have decided it was because he was black and felt so put upon.Whether or not Mr. Toles should have defused the situation has nothing at all to whether race was a factor, so what on earth are you babbling about?ld: there is evidence to suggest that race placed a factor.
AM: I watched the video. But I have seen no evidence suggesting that.
me: ... So clearly he thought it was about race...which contributed to his decision to stand on his rights rather than try to defuse the situation. It might well not have escalated into a penis length contest if only he hadn't decided it was because he was black.
ld: Whether or not Mr. Toles could or should have acted to defuse the situation is irrelevant to the issue that <different issue snipped>
me: AM said he hadn't seen evidence race was a factor so I showed him some.
I don't even know how far my own building management wants us to go in not letting people tailgate us; I'm certainly not in the business of reading her building management's minds. If they told tenants not to let others tailgate them but they didn't mean literally blocking them but they didn't make clear they meant "but don't literally block them", then that's still a call to bar their entry, and if there was a miscommunication on that point, that's on them.You think management meant to literally block people from entering the building as opposed to not opening the door or buzzing people in that they didn’t know?No? Is management telling tenants not to let people they don't know into the building not a call to bar their entry? It sounds to me like she had a call.
True, but there's nothing in the least out of the ordinary about her claim. Last I checked, her building management was refusing to confirm or deny her account of what they tell people.And that assumes Ms. Mueller is accurately portraying what management tells people.
Yes, yes, we get it, you can't tell the difference between "should have" and "would have". That's on you.And yet you harp on it as if it is relevant.Nobody said it is ..And, it is irrelevant to the basic issue that it is not incumbent on the victim to defuse the situation.
"Illegally"? Can you cite which law requires people to get out of the way when somebody else demands they do so so he can tailgate them into a secured private building?BTW, Mr Toles was a victim since Ms. Mueller was illegally barring him from entering his building. Why anyone had to be shown that Mr. Toles was a victim is truly pathetic.
Based on news media interviews with her after the fact.Do tell how you KNOW how she felt while this happened.No doubt. And Ms. Mueller felt it wasn't.
Excuse me? What I said was an investigation, not an insinuation. The people who accused Ms. Mueller of racism either had evidence or else spoke with reckless disregard for the truth. Asking them if they have evidence is no more an insinuation when I do it than when the police ask the same of a citizen filing a complaint against his neighbor. You think we need a less "poor" reason to "justify" asking for evidence than "innocent until proven guilty"?You certainly insinuated it. And when called your baseless insinuation, offered up very poor reasons to justify it.Indeed not. That's why I didn't claim Ms. Mueller's accusers spoke with reckless disregard for the truthNor have the "agnostics" presented anything other than they don't have sufficient information to make a judgment. Which is fine, but that does not mean that anyone else lacks sufficient information.
And if my failure to presume that her accusers had evidence was baseless, then why is it, do you think, that not one of them has responded with an iota of evidence that Ms. Mueller would have reacted differently if a white man had acted like Toles? If either they or you actually do have sufficient information, may the rest of us see that information, please?
On what planet does standing in the way of someone trying to get into a building create a fire hazard?