LordKiran
Veteran Member
Do you think it's okay for luxury services to discriminate on the basis of things their specialized clientele might find icky, even if it's a certain race or sexual orientation? Can a country club just decide not to allow gay men to join, since playing golf in the Hamptons isn't a vital public service?This isn't really a plight, is it? A spa isn't a crucial social function for women, or anybody. I've been to several spas and most have people walking around in swimsuits or bathrobes. This is in nudist-friendly Sweden. This spa seems to be highly specialised to cater to a very specific clientel. A specific clientel that it seems like, trans women aren't. If this was about access to a university I'd be the first to man the pro-trans baricades. This time... not so much.
I'm all for regulations against restrictions when those restrictions seem to only exist to make life difficult for certain groups. But this just isn't. Spa's are a luxury service. I think we should be restrictive with regulations. Too often they just make life better for lawyers, and worse for everybody else. Not all regulations. Just some.
We can't regulate ourselves to happiness. The fundamental problem here is that some women feel icky about penises, and they associate penises with cis men. The work that needs to be done here is to change that perception. Which does not, (and should not) involve going the legal route.
The gay movement, primarily, was about changing the image and perception of gay men and women. So was the civil rights movement, when it came to blacks. This is no different IMHO
Can that same country club deny service to a person with a visible physical abnormality? Because when you break it down, that's really all this is. Someone has a visible physical abnormality and is being excluded because of that reason. Sounds way less defensible when I put it that way, no?