Toni
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Make that the illegality in drinking culture in the USA. Laws vary from state to state. In some states, it is legal to serve minors in the home or presence and with the permission of their parent or guardian. So, yes your 17 year old can have a glass of wine at Thanksgiving dinner. In other states, even that is not legal.Underage drinking, yes, but at bars??The restaurant bar situation is hardly different. Many teens engage in underage drinking. This is a known thing. A teen who is underage drinking is not necessarily communicating to anyone that they are acting legally and in fact it is well-known that younger people engage in risky behaviors more often, which includes illegal behaviors. It is probably less well known, but teens tend to binge drink more than the general population. This means if you observe someone who is drunk and very young looking, it ought to cross your mind that they could be underage. I seriously doubt anyway that anyone underage and completely drunk is holding together any kind of semblance of maturity.
Yes, sometimes underage drinking occurs at bars (assuming it was a bar and not a restaurant). Did you see the quote? "if you can count to 18, I'll give you one drink."
That said, the vast majority of the time the supplier is from family and friends and a minority of the time a fake id is used. While we cannot say for sure that the bartender was a friend or looked the other way, it seems more likely that one of her girlfriends got some alcohol and gave it to her from the bar. ... because of those statistics that say most of the time it comes from family and friends, not a fake id.
If I had to take a guess, I'd say some kind of tactic was being used where one of the older friends is buying for others and the bartenders or management looks the other way due to the way Louisiana law works where the bar owner was not held to account, if he did not sell it directly to the minor. Moreover, the illegality in the drinking culture in Louisiana is so common that such tactics would not be unknown to bar goers or 30 year old men from Louisiana. In Louisiana, a good majority of high school seniors have had a drink and half of those drink regularly.
I find it hard to believe that a 30 year old man would be unaware that underage drinking and a culture that supports it exists with it all around him for decades and likely took part in it himself.
In every state in the US, minors are served alcohol in violation of whatever laws exist in that particular state. Violations can result in fines and even loss of drivers' licenses and occasionally, jail. In exactly ZERO states is the penalty for minor consumption stated to be rape. But of course that happens every single day in every single state and is rarely reported.