Being forced to utter a pronoun that is not in accordance with somebody's sex but in accordance with their 'gender identity' is being forced to agree with that person's self-assessment of their personality.What on earth makes you imagine this dispute is about what any people call themselves?If you don't care about somebody's gender why is it of any relevance what they call themselves?
If Jews want to call themselves "God's Chosen People", that's no skin off Metaphor's nose. But if a bunch of self-anointed "Jews' Allies" ordered Metaphor to start calling Jews "God's Chosen People", that would probably rile him up a bit, make him feel his free speech rights were being infringed on, get his back up, and make him even less likely to call them that than he was before. Wouldn't that get your back up too?
This analogy is inapt.
The choice “God’s Chosen People” is not in any way analogous to “she/her”.
The reason all of us would object to being required to call some one or some group “God’s Chosen People” is because it imputes hierarchy and rank. It expects reverence and deference. It is reasonable to object to that.
Obviously being he/him or she/her does not impute any of those things.
A woman in the UK who was assaulted by a transwoman was denied victim compensation because the woman did not use the transwoman's preferred pronouns in court. That is the government forcing people to behave in a certain way. You will see this transwoman as a woman, and even if you don't, you will utter the pronouns that show that deference.
You might have a point, Rhea, if women in the 1970s made the forced use of titles and honorifics the policy of the State.I recall when a bunch of men (meaning, several millions of them, back in the 70s) were incensed at having to call women “Ms.” instead of Miss or Mrs. It was no skin off their noses, they were just being dicks trying to claim that they had a right to define women instead of the women defining themselves. This sounds a lot like that, to me.
Yet, apart from my year 6 teacher scolding me for calling her 'Mrs' instead of 'Ms', I don't recall being prosecuted for it.
So, if you think 'Ms' is the correct title for you, it is indeed no skin off my nose. Just don't force other people to use it. You are not entitled to their perceptions.