Elixir
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Not anything you seem able to understand.The entire argument you've made is...
I’ll take the hit for that - I can’t teach pigeons to play chess worth a damn either.
Not anything you seem able to understand.The entire argument you've made is...
It is not a problem for me. It certainly would be a gigantic step forward from the current situation.
I want Roe v Wade reinstated exactly as it was.
Why exactly is that a problem for you?
The problem is you keep misrepresenting the situation. The "voluntary" abortions are because something's gone wrong. We didn't have a problem before, there's no reason to crack down on something that wasn't happening. (And that "research" you presented was seriously lacking in the hallmarks of good research.) On the other side, though, we have plenty of cases where the anti-abortion forces have made it very clear they won't accept medical abortions. Rule #1: there is no medical reason for abortion. There is no rule #2, pay no attention to the dead women. Last I knew three women had been sacrificed on this altar.Except the babies that would otherwise be killed, of course.That’s what I said.medically justified abortions for the last trimester.
Jump through legal hoops to obtain healthcare in the 3rd.
* benefits NOBODY
I really find it weird when men so vociferously argue for late-term voluntary abortions without any medical justification, despite the fact that the overwhelming majority of women don't support them.* makes a handy platform for controlling and harming women
QED.
i don’t know why you want to re-litigate this stupidity.
Okay. Let's start here.Is an invention of your less-than-honest mind.your position that a baby two days before delivery is nothing more than a lump of cells not at all worthy of any sort of protection
Fuck that shit. If you can’t make your case without imputing ridiculousness, your intellectual bankruptcy is laid bare.
You need to demonstrate said baby-killing. Simple decision matrix:At some point in the process, it's not a zygote anymore, it's a fetus. At another point, it's no longer a fetus and becomes a baby. We can squabble about exactly when that point is... but it's a reasonable generality that during that last trimester, it's pretty much a baby. I know it seems completely bonkers to you that anyone would ever be opposed to killing babies unless there was a very good reason for doing so, but well, here I am: I oppose killing babies unless there's a really good reason for it.
Seriously, why is it so difficult for you guys to grasp that I am still fully supportive of late term abortions when there's a really good reason for it?
You say this, but you keep arguing against the basically empty set. And we are very used to the "pro-life" (very few of them are) crowd pretending the medical reasons do not exist. Do you understand why many of us feel your position doesn't match what you say it is?This is the dumbest fucking rejoinder.At some point in the process, a woman bleeds out in a parking lot.
If the life of the mother is in any way endangered, if her health is at risk, if the infant is unviable, if the infant has a severe deformation or condition that will cause lifelong problems, and any number of other possible medically justifiable situations arises, then by all means I completely support termination in the last trimester.
Seriously, the fact that the ONLY argument you and Elixir and others keep trotting out is one I've already granted as an exception rather demonstrates that you're not using your brains about this one bit. Use your brain.
Unless you've been cosplaying as Jimmy Higgins for a couple of decades, that wasn't directed at youIt is not a problem for me. It certainly would be a gigantic step forward from the current situation.
I want Roe v Wade reinstated exactly as it was.
Why exactly is that a problem for you?
I don't want to interfere with medicine. Look, we have a whole lot of laws that prevent euthanasia of humans with terminal illnesses. We have laws about prescribing opioids, and limits on how many and in what circumstances they can be given. We have laws against lobotomizing patients. We have a LOT of laws that limit the practice of medicine. We already interfere in medicine - and it's not entirely unreasonable, especially when there are risks to the person (or persons) being treated.IMO, the state should simply butt out of medical issues and allow the licensed medical professional and the client decide what is in the client's best interest. I do agree that there will be instances where a choice will be made that disturbs or upsets me. But I think that potential harm of interfering with the practice of medicine is greater than the instances that might upset or disturb the public.
I agree on both counts.Frankly, what bothers the most about this issue in the public is that there is a goddamn lot of "mansplaining" by men on an issue that has serious direct medical effects and emotional issues on women that far outweigh those on men in general. Most of the state legislatures that place restrictions on abortion are dominated by men, many whom seem completely misinformed or misogynistic about women and life.
Emily, do I have to post in all caps or something?Okay. Let's start here.Is an invention of your less-than-honest mind.your position that a baby two days before delivery is nothing more than a lump of cells not at all worthy of any sort of protection
Fuck that shit. If you can’t make your case without imputing ridiculousness, your intellectual bankruptcy is laid bare.
Do you believe that a baby two days prior to delivery has any personhood that merits some element of protection?
In other words, you admit there wasn't a problem.Nobody needs to convince a lawyer or judge, and certainly not ahead of time. That's why it's not a fucking ban!
JFC. What I want is exactly what was in place for almost all of my life, what was in place under Roe v. Wade. That didn't result in tons of women bleeding out in parking lots, nor in them having to get special dispensation from a judge ahead of time, nor any of the other "omg sky is falling" scenarios that keep getting trotted out as an argument against reinstating RvW!
You actually quoted her saying it.In other words, you admit there wasn't a problem.
How hard is that?JFC. What I want is exactly what was in place for almost all of my life, what was in place under Roe v. Wade.
Do you believe that a baby two days prior to delivery has any personhood that merits some element of protection?
You are treating it as a single entity--nope, it had already been undermined by the right. Consider, for example, the prohibition on an D&X--thus forcing some women to have c-sections to remove a brainless fetus because the skull was too big to be delivered vaginally. We are fine with the 1973 RvW, not with the 2020 RvW.Please provide some modicum of supporting evidence for all of the delays and bureaucracy that occurred under Roe v Wade.
FFS, I'm being burned at the fucking stake for literally wanting to reinstitute exactly the same approach that was in place for my whole goddamned life! You and Elixir and others keep trotting out these horror stories of what you imagine might happen under a version of law that you've added your own bullshit to, for no other reason that to make it sound like it's somehow abhorrent to hold the view that the overwhelming majority of women support, and which is exactly how it worked for essentially all of our lives!
This is insanity. Like seriously, this is craziness from you guys.
I want Roe v Wade reinstated exactly as it was.
Why exactly is that a problem for you?
No, they're not always because something has gone wrong. Most of them are, and I absolutely support taking action in those cases.The problem is you keep misrepresenting the situation. The "voluntary" abortions are because something's gone wrong.Except the babies that would otherwise be killed, of course.That’s what I said.medically justified abortions for the last trimester.
Jump through legal hoops to obtain healthcare in the 3rd.
* benefits NOBODY
I really find it weird when men so vociferously argue for late-term voluntary abortions without any medical justification, despite the fact that the overwhelming majority of women don't support them.* makes a handy platform for controlling and harming women
QED.
i don’t know why you want to re-litigate this stupidity.
And if we didn't have a problem before, then I don't see why there's any need to remove the restrictions that were in place before either.We didn't have a problem before, there's no reason to crack down on something that wasn't happening.
Great, take your argument to the pro-lifers then.(And that "research" you presented was seriously lacking in the hallmarks of good research.) On the other side, though, we have plenty of cases where the anti-abortion forces have made it very clear they won't accept medical abortions. Rule #1: there is no medical reason for abortion. There is no rule #2, pay no attention to the dead women. Last I knew three women had been sacrificed on this altar.
You need to demonstrate said baby-killing. Simple decision matrix:At some point in the process, it's not a zygote anymore, it's a fetus. At another point, it's no longer a fetus and becomes a baby. We can squabble about exactly when that point is... but it's a reasonable generality that during that last trimester, it's pretty much a baby. I know it seems completely bonkers to you that anyone would ever be opposed to killing babies unless there was a very good reason for doing so, but well, here I am: I oppose killing babies unless there's a really good reason for it.
Seriously, why is it so difficult for you guys to grasp that I am still fully supportive of late term abortions when there's a really good reason for it?
Woman healthy/endangered
Fetus healthy/damaged
Four options.
WH/FH: This one is the bogeyman being used to justify sacrificing women--but we have no evidence they exist.
I find it so very odd that you guys are so opposed to reasonable restrictions late in pregnancy. Hell, most European countries place limits on how far along a pregnancy can be for terminations, some with limits much much earlier than I would consider reasonable. And I'm not talking about eastern european, heavily orthodox countries, I'm talking about Germany, France, and Spain.WH/FD: These are the ones that the Gilead crowd pretends are voluntary. Yeah, in many cases she could go to term but that just adds to her medical problems without producing any benefit. And in many cases where the defects aren't fatal it's a matter of inflicting a lifetime of suffering.
WE/FH: This will normally be resolved by delivery, not abortion.
WE/FD: Most of these come down to whether the fetus takes her with it. And the Gilead crowd denies the reality. Last I knew they were up to three sacrifices, I would be surprised if there aren't more that people have been afraid to go public with.
And we already go too far in sticking government noses into medical decisions.I don't want to interfere with medicine. Look, we have a whole lot of laws that prevent euthanasia of humans with terminal illnesses. We have laws about prescribing opioids, and limits on how many and in what circumstances they can be given. We have laws against lobotomizing patients. We have a LOT of laws that limit the practice of medicine. We already interfere in medicine - and it's not entirely unreasonable, especially when there are risks to the person (or persons) being treated.
Except that was not the case by the time Dobbs rolled around. RvW was based on good faith that no longer exists. One side abused it, one side didn't.A doctor under RvW was never prohibited from taking medically appropriate action, they never had to get permission first. And nobody was left to die and bleed out because of RvW. All it did was to specify that at some point, the fetus is a baby and therefore also worthy of protection from undue harm. All it did was clarify that late occurring decisions to no longer want a baby did not constitute sufficient reason to kill that baby. When there was any risk to the mother, or if the fetus was unviable or severely damaged, there was never a barrier to termination - nor should there be.
And we have more examples of politicians doing so.Butting out of medical issues and letting the doctor and patient decide sounds like a really good idea. And from a theoretical standpoint, I support it. But we've seen many examples throughout history of doctors making some incredibly bad decisions, and engaging in behaviors toward their patients that should never have been allowed to happen. Sometimes, setting boundaries is the appropriate thing to do.
I understand that many of you are working from a position of "right wing bad" and can't step back from that reflex enough to realize that this isn't a right wing positions at all. It's the completely liberal position that is supported by the vast majority of women, and Democrats, and well, almost all developed countries.You say this, but you keep arguing against the basically empty set. And we are very used to the "pro-life" (very few of them are) crowd pretending the medical reasons do not exist. Do you understand why many of us feel your position doesn't match what you say it is?This is the dumbest fucking rejoinder.At some point in the process, a woman bleeds out in a parking lot.
If the life of the mother is in any way endangered, if her health is at risk, if the infant is unviable, if the infant has a severe deformation or condition that will cause lifelong problems, and any number of other possible medically justifiable situations arises, then by all means I completely support termination in the last trimester.
Seriously, the fact that the ONLY argument you and Elixir and others keep trotting out is one I've already granted as an exception rather demonstrates that you're not using your brains about this one bit. Use your brain.
You understand incorrectly, and continue to do so despite me having been very clear about it.Emily, do I have to post in all caps or something?Okay. Let's start here.Is an invention of your less-than-honest mind.your position that a baby two days before delivery is nothing more than a lump of cells not at all worthy of any sort of protection
Fuck that shit. If you can’t make your case without imputing ridiculousness, your intellectual bankruptcy is laid bare.
Do you believe that a baby two days prior to delivery has any personhood that merits some element of protection?
My position:
ALL decisions regarding abortion, should be made between the patient, their spouse if applicable, and their doctor.
Under NO circumstances do I favor getting legislators or law enforcement personnel involved in those decisions.
Your position as I understand it:
Decisions should be up to the same parties I named, except in the third trimester when it becomes appropriate for legislators and/or law enforcement to get involved in those decisions.
If I misunderstand your position feel free to clarify.
If you still don't get my position, just ask; don't go assuming I favor killing babies or saying I assign zero value to fetuses etc..
It ain't that complicated.
Okay, let's take a look at the red bit, because that's where you and I are completely failing to communicate.Do you believe that a baby two days prior to delivery has any personhood that merits some element of protection?
Stupid "gotcha" question.
"Two days prior to delivery" doesn't apply to any actual situation at all. If the delivery takes place in two days and you kill the baby, that's murder.
If there's some reason for a last minute abortion, I sure as fuck don't want your congressman in the room with me, my wife and my doctor. That is a nightmare situation and the LAST place legislators belong.
If there's no reason for the last minute abortion, the doctor should refuse to do it. He does not need a cop standing at his shoulder*.
There DO arise situations where the choice is save the baby or save the mother. In those situations saving the mother has traditionally been understood in the US to be the way to go because the mom can make another baby and the baby cannot make another mom. But again I'd leave it up to the family not some congresscritter.
* unless (s)he already belongs in jail with their med license revoked. That's why they take the Hippocratic oath.
Does that make anything any clearer for you?
Can you cite a few such cases? I'll take your word for it if you say you've seen credible reports that some mother (got in a bad mood one day or something) changed her mind at the last minute after 9 months of carrying the "child", she opts to kill it, and finds a doctor to serve as accessory. (National Inquirer is not a credible sourceNo, they're not always because something has gone wrong.
Before I can properly reply to this post, it would help if you can clarify your position on a certain point...Party?You referenced the benefited party
Parties are all well and good I guess.
When it comes to legislation though, I prefer that it benefit PEOPLE.
Is 100% supported.Elixir said:irrational advocacies for laws that hurt people and benefit nobody, but comport with religious edicts
By contorting “fetus” into “the party” you are trying to sneak an unsupported assumption that fetuses are people, and of equal value to that of the mother, into the discussion.
You are of course welcome to a belief that fetuses are people, but I disagree with that OPINION and find it self evident that elevating their rights above those of people, is harmful to people.
You are making yourself appear to be holding the position that a late-term fetus* is not a person when you're talking to me but is a person when you're talking to Emily. I'm guessing that that's not your actual position, since it's ridiculous, but hey, you're the one who chose to make yourself look ridiculous. So please clarify your position. In your view, is a late-term fetus a person or not?Is an invention of your less-than-honest mind. ... If you can’t make your case without imputing ridiculousness, your intellectual bankruptcy is laid bare.your position that a baby two days before delivery is nothing more than a lump of cells not at all worthy of any sort of protection