And yet it’s happened. More than once.Fear of rape: real.Oh boy...You keep referring to rape in general without distinguishing the circumstances.$*&(^#@*(*&(^*^%#*&And they are right to do so.Seriously, men in this thread are absolutely discounting fears and concerns of women.
People should discount fears and concerns, in the absence of evidence that those fears are based on actual threats.
1 in 5 women in the US has been subjected to an attempted or completed rape - including both me and Toni.
80% of women in the US have been sexually assaulted - and that doesn't include the ones who don't count having their boob grabbed by a total stranger as a sexual assault, and see it as just the cost of being a woman.
90% of the victims of sexual assault are female, and 98% of the perpetrators are male.
But sure. Go ahead and mansplain to us silly old hens that our concerns and fears are irrational.
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How can you say Emily Lake's "fear is real" but then discard it as not a "realistic fear"?Yes, your fear is real--but you haven't established that trans are an actual threat. We are taking the position that fears should be evaluated, society should only enforce protection from realistic fears.
Fear of rape by fake trans in the bathroom: not realistic.
Personally, I’m not particularly afraid of being raped. I’ve been successful in defending myself so far. The first time was luck: He didn’t expect me to fight back. Actually, it was all a matter of luck, but that luck was informed by me being alert enough, primed, so to speak, to not allow someone to be in a position to hurt me. Which meant being very vigilant and not hesitating. Once, I was sufficiently convinced someone I worked with meant me serious harm that I preemptively made certain he knew not to even think about laying hands on me. Probably a violation of most workplace HR policies but every day at that job was a workplace HR violation. I’ll spare you the details. It was gross but the only job I could find at the time,Of course you have a real fear of rape.In other words, you are totally unwilling to acknowledge that women have any legitimate fear of rape. Certainly nothing that would require any adjustment of behavior in the part of makes or society as a whole.
The question is whether any given situation is a threat.
And they can differniate this in the moment how?Fear of rape: real.Oh boy...You keep referring to rape in general without distinguishing the circumstances.$*&(^#@*(*&(^*^%#*&And they are right to do so.Seriously, men in this thread are absolutely discounting fears and concerns of women.
People should discount fears and concerns, in the absence of evidence that those fears are based on actual threats.
1 in 5 women in the US has been subjected to an attempted or completed rape - including both me and Toni.
80% of women in the US have been sexually assaulted - and that doesn't include the ones who don't count having their boob grabbed by a total stranger as a sexual assault, and see it as just the cost of being a woman.
90% of the victims of sexual assault are female, and 98% of the perpetrators are male.
But sure. Go ahead and mansplain to us silly old hens that our concerns and fears are irrational.
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How can you say Emily Lake's "fear is real" but then discard it as not a "realistic fear"?Yes, your fear is real--but you haven't established that trans are an actual threat. We are taking the position that fears should be evaluated, society should only enforce protection from realistic fears.
Fear of rape by fake trans in the bathroom: not realistic.
No one in a shower is going to do a rational point by point risk analysis. Women already do that by going into a women only space. They assume and should have the right to assume that they are safe from assault or PTSD. They should have a right to that."Unlikely" is far too fuzzy a word. Standard risk analysis is probability * consequences. Low probability events can be bad enough that they warrant addressing. And you don't compare the risk to zero, but to the alternatives. Note the flip side to this--focusing on the unlikely events drives people to choose the common but dangerous path. And it diverts protective effort away from more beneficial things.Loren is viewing this purely from an anti-septic POV, straight up statistics. If the likelihood of an attack is unlikely, then it isn't a 'realistic' threat, period, end of statement. IE, the final outcome of crime or no crime is how he envisions this.
I don't think it's the wrong question. Yes, there is a perception of risk--but I don't believe that a false perception of risk justifies a law.I think he is asking the wrong the question in his analysis. This isn't about a 'realistic' threat, but a 'realistic' perception.
Emily has even admitted the situation existed for a long time without a problem.I agree, the perception is muddled in an ugly amount of unfairness to a transgender woman as some the presumptions are based on intolerance of transgender women (mainly by men, but certainly some women). However, there is a lot rooted in personal trauma as well as a natural (and should be expected) innate reaction due to what would have otherwise been lewd behavior at the very best. A reaction / perception that is precipitated by an aggregate of well documented sex crimes (and undocumented sex crimes) against women by men.
What's changed is the reich wing stirring up hatred. They can't ship them off to the camps until they've sufficiently demonized them.
What makes you think this is true?Fear of rape: real.Oh boy...You keep referring to rape in general without distinguishing the circumstances.$*&(^#@*(*&(^*^%#*&And they are right to do so.Seriously, men in this thread are absolutely discounting fears and concerns of women.
People should discount fears and concerns, in the absence of evidence that those fears are based on actual threats.
1 in 5 women in the US has been subjected to an attempted or completed rape - including both me and Toni.
80% of women in the US have been sexually assaulted - and that doesn't include the ones who don't count having their boob grabbed by a total stranger as a sexual assault, and see it as just the cost of being a woman.
90% of the victims of sexual assault are female, and 98% of the perpetrators are male.
But sure. Go ahead and mansplain to us silly old hens that our concerns and fears are irrational.
*)%^$&^^%@!$
How can you say Emily Lake's "fear is real" but then discard it as not a "realistic fear"?Yes, your fear is real--but you haven't established that trans are an actual threat. We are taking the position that fears should be evaluated, society should only enforce protection from realistic fears.
Fear of rape by fake trans in the bathroom: not realistic.
Dude! Do you have any idea how crazy your theory sounds? Read the thread title!It's the P2025 people that are stirring up the crusade against the trans. So far they have shown they mean it with what they said in P2025, why should I think they don't mean the rest of it? Just because it's horrendous doesn't make the threat not real.Dude! You think you can make an ad hominem argument not be a fallacy by name-dropping? What the hell do the Project 2025 people have to do with us on iidb? Do you sincerely believe "We should take women's single-sex spaces away from them because I can find somebody really bad who doesn't want us to." is a sound argument? What, do all the women in America who're creeped out by co-ed bathrooms deserve to be punished for Project 2025's sins?!?I won't claim it's a scientific conclusion.
But look at Project 2025. Presenting as trans = pornography. If a minor sees you that's showing pornography to a minor, which is already illegal.
Why in the world should I think they don't intend to implement Project 2025?
Methinks the situation you have in mind when you say "the situation" is not the same situation Emily agrees existed for a long time without a problem.Emily has even admitted the situation existed for a long time without a problem.I agree, the perception is muddled in an ugly amount of unfairness to a transgender woman as some the presumptions are based on intolerance of transgender women (mainly by men, but certainly some women). However, there is a lot rooted in personal trauma as well as a natural (and should be expected) innate reaction due to what would have otherwise been lewd behavior at the very best. A reaction / perception that is precipitated by an aggregate of well documented sex crimes (and undocumented sex crimes) against women by men.
Oh please. Nobody is going to be shipped off to the camps for being trans. It's the people speaking out against gender ideology who are getting persecuted by the legal system. Hatred is being stirred up by the left wing with the hateful and insane policies they impose on a largely unwilling public.What's changed is the reich wing stirring up hatred. They can't ship them off to the camps until they've sufficiently demonized them.
After 18 months, this case has come to a conclusion
A nurse who complained about sharing a changing room with a transgender doctor has been cleared of gross misconduct following disciplinary proceedings by NHS Fife. Sandie Peggie was suspended from her role last year after she objected to Dr Beth Upton, who is a transgender woman, using female facilities. The nurse had faced allegations of misconduct, failures of patient care and misgendering Dr Upton. NHS Fife said an internal hearing found there was "insufficient evidence to support a finding of misconduct". Ms Peggie, who has worked at NHS Fife for more than 30 years, told the tribunal she had felt uncomfortable around Dr Upton in a changing room at Kirkcaldy's Victoria Hospital on three occasions between August and December 2023. She said the issue came to a head on Christmas Eve when Dr Upton started to undress in front of her. Ms Peggie told the tribunal she had felt "embarrassed and intimidated". The pair then exchanged words - although the details of their conversation are disputed.
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A discussion about self-perception and how others perceive that perception would seem heavily important here.Sure, it is a "free country", but unless someone has a particular insight into how someone else thinks, going with the original birth gender is nothing short of judgmental.What the heck has "how someone else thinks" got to do with it?
Reincarnation is a spiritual concept invented by people. Gender is a taxonomical like concept based on a broad baseline of outwardly obvious and inwardly (to organ level) discernable attributes. We know now that gender isn't as simple as that, because neurology.I don't need to know how Tenzin Gyatso thinks to judge that he's not anyone's reincarnation, and if you find that judgmental of me, that's nothing short of judgmental of you.
That is a peculiar statement for you to use. It admits that "gender" isn't steadfast and carved in stone. That it is possible to adapt with better understanding on what provides a gender beyond organs.What I don't take seriously is the religious belief of gender ideologues that an individual's inner feelings trump reality. Gender is a social construct. What the criteria for the genders are are up to society collectively.
I don't give a good goddamn about anybody's gender identity. I accept that some people have a mental condition that causes them distress about their sexed bodies, and I even accept that in some few cases it might be a congenital condition. But I think the entire notion of gender identity is bullshit - it's adopting regressive social stereotypes as a badge of honor.
If you don't give a good goddamn about anyone's gender identity, then why do you get into arguments about it?
You think gender identity is bullshit. Psychologists, psychiatrists, sociologists, and people who study the neurobiology of gender and identity think it's an important aspect of human health and socialization.
Sure, I suppose.I agree with you, but let's be real here. Having a vagina is not a trivial matter.
Why do you think it isn't working? It works very well to divide sports on the basis of sex. I don't know what you think would be improved by making the rules massively more complicated just so that some males can feel better about themselves. I don't see how that's an improvement for anyone other than some mediocre male athletes.Better, more precise categories are not limited to height and weight categories. They can be based on age, experience, or something else. College football programs compete in divisions based on their size and resources. The Mount Marathon race recently added a non-binary division.
We don't have to hold on to something that isn't working just because that's how we've always done it. We can make improvements.
Here's a genuine disagreement between us. You seem to view pronouns as being something self-defined, based solely on self-declaration and self-perception of how well a person aligns with one or the other sex-based regressive stereotypes. In other words, you view pronouns as being based on a person's gender identity.Semenya's sense of self is not defined by how well she conforms to the sex classification system you use. If you don't care about pronoun use, then I don't see why you're being rude about it.
Why should I care what Semenya's gender identity is?That, imho, is the problem.I don't care what Semenya's "gender identity" is,
I do not.That sounds like another problem. Everyone has a gender identity. You have a gender identity.I don't give a good goddamn about anybody's gender identity
I think it's a who, not a what. "Transgender" may represent an aspect of who a person is, but it has no bearing at all on what that person is.This isn't about want, it is about what. Your statement reads as if you don't think transgender actually exists.Gender identity can be whatever the heck you want it to be. It's irrelevant to me, and if it makes someone else happy no problem.Even if we only recognize two sexes and sort everyone into one or the other, that does not mean there are only two genders, or that gender is immutable.
Meh. Perimenopause has definitely made me testier than I used to be. I do my best, but my patience with BS has really waned.Naw, she's always been like that.Perhaps if posters didn't misrepresent Emily and argue about strawman versions of what she actually posts she wouldn't get so testy.This isn't about want, it is about what. Your statement reads as if you don't think transgender actually exists.Gender identity can be whatever the heck you want it to be. It's irrelevant to me, and if it makes someone else happy no problem.Even if we only recognize two sexes and sort everyone into one or the other, that does not mean there are only two genders, or that gender is immutable.
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If "gender identity" actually had some clear and consistent meaning you might have a bit more of a point. As it is, it's such a nebulous humpty-dumpty tautological concept that it's effectively meaningless, really.Also, I qualified my statement appropriately.
The interesting thing here is that you perceive this discussion as having "dissed" social sciences. That didn't happen. My saying that social sciences aren't actually sciences doesn't diss them at all. You seem to have overlooked me explicitly saying that they often have value and are often worthwhile... but they aren't actually science. You also seem to have overlooked where I stated that my own field is not actually science either.Someone dissed social sciences and I defended them, although I’m not a social scientist. I chose not to reply to that post.How in the heck did this derail come about?!Newton did a crap ton of observations and had incredibly high precision in what he observed. His theories regarding light and motion weren't developed solely from a philosophical perspective, but began with a massive amount of observations, formulated into hypotheses, with testable predictions (which held out), then formalized with supporting mathematical functions that could be applied to predict future outcomes. We still use his actual hard science in our everyday lives.I don’t think any thinks Isaac Newton didn’t do physics, but neither did he have high precision nor lots of observations.
I’m into cell and molecular biology with a dash biochemistry, with outside interests in ecology and a strong interest in literature and visual arts. But I have friends who are in a variety of social sciences and even liberal arts. IMO, a lot of what is currently going wrong in the world or at least the US is the dismissal of the value of social sciences and liberal arts.
Knowledge is good and I cannot see the wisdom in pissing on other fields just to try to prove to yourself that ‘your’ field is the smartest.
Knowledge is good but wisdom is more important. And so is having an appreciation of beauty and light and other human being.
Apparently, yes, it is time.Is it time to start splitting hairs over the differences between a pseudovagina, a vaginal pouch, a blind vagina, and a vagina that does not terminate in a cervix?
Go right ahead.
Males with 5-ARD sometimes have a vaginal opening at birth. In most cases it atrophies considerably during puberty, and often closes up completely.Meanwhile, the sources I have read say guevedoces have what appears to be a vagina between their legs. I take that to mean if the average person saw a guevedoce's groin, he or she would think they were seeing a vagina in there along with some rather small man parts.
We understand some of it just fine. Hormones do affect the brain, after all. And people with disorders of sexual development generally produce and process sex hormones. The occasions where we see surgical alterations of infants with DSDs going wrong are when the doctor didn't bother to find out what the infant's actual sex was in the first place.You say there is no gendered mind but the bad results from attempting to surgically correct the intersexed clearly show there's something upstairs. We don't understand it yet but we can observe the bad outcomes of going against it so it must exist.
Denying that a science is a science is in fact disrespect.The interesting thing here is that you perceive this discussion as having "dissed" social sciences. That didn't happen. My saying that social sciences aren't actually sciences doesn't diss them at all. You seem to have overlooked me explicitly saying that they often have value and are often worthwhile... but they aren't actually science. You also seem to have overlooked where I stated that my own field is not actually science either.Someone dissed social sciences and I defended them, although I’m not a social scientist. I chose not to reply to that post.How in the heck did this derail come about?!Newton did a crap ton of observations and had incredibly high precision in what he observed. His theories regarding light and motion weren't developed solely from a philosophical perspective, but began with a massive amount of observations, formulated into hypotheses, with testable predictions (which held out), then formalized with supporting mathematical functions that could be applied to predict future outcomes. We still use his actual hard science in our everyday lives.I don’t think any thinks Isaac Newton didn’t do physics, but neither did he have high precision nor lots of observations.
I’m into cell and molecular biology with a dash biochemistry, with outside interests in ecology and a strong interest in literature and visual arts. But I have friends who are in a variety of social sciences and even liberal arts. IMO, a lot of what is currently going wrong in the world or at least the US is the dismissal of the value of social sciences and liberal arts.
Knowledge is good and I cannot see the wisdom in pissing on other fields just to try to prove to yourself that ‘your’ field is the smartest.
Knowledge is good but wisdom is more important. And so is having an appreciation of beauty and light and other human being.
You seem to read a lot of what you want to see, rather than reading what's actually there.
Seriously. Seahorses are really cool creatures, very interesting evolution, really different mating and gestational behaviors. Some of my favorite sea creatures (slightly behind cephalopods and tetraodontiformes). But they're not, you know, actually horses.
Newton took a huge amount of observations and measurements himself. He also collected observations and measurements from other natural philosophers of the time, including Halley.He didn't make them, doesn't mean he didn't have them. Namely, the observations of the positions of the planets in the sky. Centuries of data.I don’t think any thinks Isaac Newton didn’t do physics, but neither did he have high precision nor lots of observations.
Do those social sciences make falsifiable predictions that are accurate to within a reasonable degree of error?Then social scientists are a science because there are centuries of observations of humans in societies.He didn't make them, doesn't mean he didn't have them. Namely, the observations of the positions of the planets in the sky. Centuries of data.I don’t think any thinks Isaac Newton didn’t do physics, but neither did he have high precision nor lots of observations.