seanie
Senior Member
Why do you believe trans women are women, given the obvious fact they are male?We do disagree. I believe that trans women are women and trans men are men and need to be respected as such.I don't think you and I are going to ever come to an agreement on this. I feel where you're coming from, and I respect your view. But I also strongly disagree with your entire premise.I see zero benefit in traumatizing or worse law abiding persons. I am as aware as you are of the potential for harm if someone accesses female only spaces through deception, in this case feigning being trans, for nefarious reasons
I’m aware of the potential for serious emotional trauma for females confronted by a male appearing body in a female only space, particularly those who have experienced sexual abuse or assault or rape.
I’m not trans and my actual in person experience with trans individuals is limited but enough that I recognize the sincerity and the harm in not being recognized for who they are. Don’t we all want to be seen? And accepted?
I don't see any benefit in traumatizing or harming law abiding people either. Where I disagree with you is that I also don't see any benefit to women by allowing males into female-only spaces in order to avoid traumatizing males. Loren and TomC and Jimmy and Poli and Bomb#20 are all males of the human species. I don't want any of them to be traumatized or harmed in any way... but women's intimate spaces aren't shields for vulnerable men. And I don't think that excluding males from female single-sex spaces is traumatizing. I don't think that ANY males should have a legal right to access female spaces because they are not female.
I'm perfectly happy to recognize a transgender person as being transgender. But that still doesn't make them the opposite sex. A transwoman is a male of the human species, and nothing can actually change that. Sincerity about their gender identity is irrelevant - that's not a heartless or cruel thing to say, there's no ill will involved. It's simply reality.
It's entirely and completely possible for me to accept a transwoman as a transwoman without me having to pretend that they are female. I cannot recognize them as female, because they are not female.
I do struggle a bit where sports are concerned because I am old enough to remember the days before Title IX and see the continuing inequalities between funding and other support for female vs male teams. But so far, most female players do not see a problem and don’t feel they are being crowded out. I defer to their judgement.
In what sense can an adult male be considered a woman?
Why?