So bear in mind that just before I was bitten quite deeply by a "very well trained dog," its owner was shouting
while it was running toward me on my bike, "She's friendly, she doesn't bite!"
So the dog owner who presumably knows all about dog psychology felt I had no reason to be in a worried state. And me, the person who presumably is "an idiot" about dog psychology was thinking, "that thing's going to attack me!"
And then it grabbed my thigh in its teeth and pulled off flesh.
Later, everyone (but me) was thinking, oh, she didn't mean, it, she was just startled, it's all okay. No, the dog was not put down, because everyone knew it was "just" bad luck.
Yes, I know there are nasty dogs. We have no leash law in our town and I jog. Oh, yes, I know about them. And every one has an owner who thinks I'm an idiot for not stopping my jog and wanting to pet and stroke and love on their precious sweetie. Because that's how you deal with dogs, right? They don't want you to run by ignoring them, they just want a little loving! If I just get to know them, they'll be so nice! If I just rub their little darling heads and say lovie lovie lovie!
You like to jog in areas where dogs are unleashed.
I like to run on my own street in my own neighborhood - if that's okay with the doggie owners?
OK, then you need to know how to do it safely.
So, I was thinking that doggie owners maybe need to be less blase' about their animals? But, yeah, an alternative is that it's my problem.
You need to realize that running/jogging triggers a prey drive in dogs and most will want to run after you.
So, I was thinking that doggie owners maybe need to realize this about their animals? But, yeah, an alternative is that it's my problem.
Some, those who are accustomed to running with their owners may just want to run by your side.
My point all along has been that the doggie owners perhaps need to take responsibility for the fact that not all humans have any desire for this.
But untrained dogs will simply be driven to want to chase after you. That's simply a fact.
Interestingly, I had been discussing how I think doggie owners should take the lead role in this - sort of as an attitude kinda thing.
Stopping is usually the correct thing to do, even if it is inconvenient and scary.
So see how this went? The "correct thing to do" is for dog owners to inconvenience and scare their neighbors. I had been discussing an alternative.
I would not suggest you reach out to pet any strange dog, ever.
Not a risk.
I would call out to see if you can get the owner to come and leash the dog.
Joking? Not sure what you mean by this.
Although one wonders, why on earth would it be the jogger's job to attend to this, assuming there was an owner nearby to be called and assuming they had a leash and felt like using it?
See, it's my experience that owner says, "oh, she won't bite, she just wants to say hi."
Interestingly, I don't fucking want to say hi to the dog.
If the owner tried to tell you how harmless their dog was, I would simply calmly remind the owner that a dog chasing someone is a dangerous situation. Because it is.
Joking?
Look how that's gone in this thread. I'm being serious here.
Look how "hey, that's a dangerous situation!" has gone. You can review it for yourself.
To be honest, I'd pick a different area to jog because being chased by dogs is annoying, at best and usually dangerous. Even the dog doesn't nip or bite, it can trip you and result in a serious injury to you. That is not a good thing.
Serious suggestion? Drive completely out of town to jog because dog owners have no responsibility to allow safe passage on my own street?
You may think I am an idiot but consider this: I've had several strange dogs go after me in very aggressive ways: head low, snarling, growling, lunging. I've never been bitten. I've never struck the dog. I've never swatted at the dog and only once has the owner ever come to call the dog off (and then apologize. I was a kid on my bike with my little sister. Neither of us was hurt.) You might consider that I've had better luck in avoiding bites than you have because maybe I know something about dogs. This is not magic. It's skill and knowledge. It's also not infallible. There was some luck involved but the best bit of luck is that I had a father who taught me how to behave around animals.
I do wonder what you know about dogs that would have saved me from getting bitten as I rode my bike past my neighbor's house?
What was it that I did wrong, Toni? That my lack of doggie knowledge brought on myself?
And if the employee doesn't want to be touched by the dog, he gets it clamped on his side and everyone thinks this is normal and harmless and it IS NOT. It is freaky and dangerous.
There was nothing freaky about it. I realize it freaks you out but that doesn't mean that it was freaky
Of course. Nothing to see here, folks.
Live bait freaks out my husband but leeches are not freaky. Creepy to some people but really not freaky.
That's your analogy? A dog's jaw on your torso versus handling live bait?
See, I don't know if you're intending this, but this here is where people start to view doggie apologists as a little bit narrow-sighted on the issue. They kind of dismiss the worries of others and just carry on not really concerned about their effect on others. And the rest of us are like, WTF!? If I went to your grandmother's house and scared her every day, I'd be a monster, right? But to the doggie owners, it's just a regular laugh-riot.
I realize that ford says his situation did INDEED include a guy who was actually a dog-guy and they all thought it was funny later. But I'm coming from the point of view that they were all just lucky that the employee was also a dog guy, and it could have gone very badly. And that it has, in fact, gone badly for others. Whose stories are dismissed as the fault of the victim (i.e. if I knew as much about dogs as you, I would never have gotten bitten.)
However, it was dangerous. The guy didn't know the dog. The dog could have been a dangerous dog. The guy could have done more stupid stuff and actually gotten hurt.
Well,
that's certainly not a freaky situation in a workplace!
Where do you get this idea that it is common? You've told us all dogs are different. So tell us, what EXACTLY should that employee have done to GUARANTEE a lovely outcome with the sweet charming well behaved doggie who was nudging at him?
Please let us know so we won't be idiots any more.
A dog who is nudging at you wants something.
Oh? Now remember the conversation went that only an idiot does not know this, and it is common sense. Some of us asked, what on earth makes you think people would know this who are not doggie people? Sharks nudge, and they want something. They want to find out if you're good to eat.
That's the part that I find most bizarre. This insistence that EVERYONE must learn to love dogs, so that dog owners do not have to exercise the responsibility of owning dogs around people who do not wish to be doggie friends.
In a low calm voice, speak to the dog: Ask what it wants.
So that the owner can have a dog without keeping it away from people who do not care what it wants?
Offer a hand to sniff if it seems safe.
Oh, I love doing that. I can feel my eyes starting to itch already. I love this advice.
Hey, did I mention that I DO NOT WANT TO TOUCH YOUR DOG? Why do I have to touch your dog?
I don't understand this, I really don't. If you can't keep your dog off of me, don't own it.
Usually, with a trained dog,
How are we knowing if it's a trained doggie again?
if you ask what it wants, it will indicate what it wants. In this case, my guess--and it is only a guess--is that it would have led the guy to the boss in order for the boss to ok the guy. Without the mouth part.
What a thoroughly intuitive scenario! I always assume dogs that I have never seen before want to take me with them to meet a person.
If it seems unsafe to offer your hand to the dog to sniff, then call out to see if other humans are near. This was a shop, apparently not a large one. The boss was nearby.
Or, the dog owner could maintain control of their dog?
The other thing that one could do if the above doesn't seem practical or safe: In a firm low register voice, tell the dog to "Git" and point away, arm extended, in a firm way.
You know what's interesting about this advice? When I do it and the owner _is_ nearby? They never seem to take that as a signal that they should come and control their dog. Instead it is always (and I mean always, it's amazing!) "Oh, she just wants to say hi!" Like I just didn't say "git" for a reason.
If that seems unsafe,then the best thing to do is to simply calmly stay still and wait. Either help will come or the dog will leave.
Ummm, no, this does not work. There is not always a person nearby and there is not always a calming sense that comes over fido.
I would be interested in watching you try this and see how it works - remember the goal is to
not touch the dog, although it is hard to get dog owners to understand this goal. They just don't seem to care and instead like to say it is my fault, or I should be ashamed for not wanting to touch their dog or something.