Don2 (Don1 Revised)
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By the Washington Post article there was no mitigating circumstances offered. It simply was a discussion of what actually happened.
If one says her skirt was provocative, that information alone is insufficient to determine that one is attempting to blame the victim. It doesn't look good (that's for sure), and if one goes on to say this never would have happened if she wasn't dressed so provocatively, it's going to take a herd of horses to convince me it's not victim blaming. However, the truth is still the truth, and the truth still hinges on just what I say it does.
Her skirt was provocative? Definitely victim blaming although really all you're doing is showing how weak you are.
A willingness of a child to acquiesce to an adults sexual wants in absolutely no way implies legal consent. If the perpetrator of a sexual assault brings up the victims frame of mind as if it was a pleasurable welcoming experience (by saying the child liked or enjoyed it, or the child wanted it or asked for it), then we still need to know why the perp is saying those things.
Yup, which is the key point. If this had been in the courtroom I certainly would call it victim blaming. However, it was with the therapist. That simply makes it details of what happened, not an attempt to lay blame.
Victim blaming is a broader concept than you seem to be aware. It's not necessarily the kind of superficial lie to get out of something legally. It's laying some of the blame for the offense on the victim when it's really the offender who had a choice to either commit an offense or not. That need not be in a court room nor superficially outwardly stated; it can be as little as an internalized thought of the offender, to a pronouncement out loud when no one else is around, to a pronouncement out loud to a confidante like a therapist, to a prosecutor, or to a newspaper publicly. Just to be clear, it can be a lie to one's self because the offender may not be able to deal with what they did.