NSFW: Big Dicks and Big Boobs

[Jolly_Penguin]

I am a short bisexual man with a smaller than average penis. I was teased and bullied for all three as a youth, but have since lost any shame for any of the three. I have had my share of lovers. I have been rejected more times for my bisexuality than for my height, and more times for my height than for my penis size. And yet I doubt that is what you would expect. Porn and culture pushes the message that big dicks equal better lovers and that nobody wants cock if it is small. I have been told by lovers that they actually prefer my smaller size to the big ones; which could be lies or could be true. Being bisexual, I myself have never been particularly attracted to big or small but am turned off by both extremes. For me it needs to be big enough to get the job done but any bigger than that and it becomes less and less hot for me.

I have always been attracted to women with small breasts, though society and culture seem to push the idea that bigger breasts are better. I have known many women both before and after breast enhancement surgery, and in my opinion they ALWAYS looked better before than after. My stripper friends (my ex was one so I know many) vary wildly in their opinions on this. I have known strippers with big boobs who obviously do well because of them, and I have also known strippers who were nearly flat chested but were the highest earners in the clubs, got the surgery anyway, and lost a ton of business for it. I think it has far far far more to do with ratio and how the shape and size of the breasts suit the shape and size of the rest of the woman.

Curious about your thoughts on this. Do big dicks and big boobs make men/women more attractive to you? If so, how important is it in relation to other physical qualities (taking personality out of this and just talking raw physical attraction)?

 

[bigfield]

Big boobs are my favourite to look at and play with, but I like all sorts of boobs, and it has not been an important factor in choosing sex partners. A pretty face and an overall attractive figure are more important to me, and even then I have many 'types'.

I'm very well endowed and my partners (all female) have all enjoyed it a great deal. Several have expressed a preference for large dicks, but with the condition that the owner knows how to use it well. My current partner has had experience with a variety of sizes: One of her favourite fuck-buddies was smaller-than-average yet gave her multiple orgasms (not including foreplay), so she kept him in rotation. In her experience, some men just don't know how to fuck: they pump furiously like a jackhammer and don't know how to do anything different. Some women enjoy the 'jackhammer', but plenty of others need something completely different, particularly if they enjoy deep-spot orgasms or like the feeling of being full.

 

[braces_for_impact]

I don't really have much of a "type" either. I'm not a big fan of huge breasts, I like them to fit their owner in proportion. I find small breasts just adorable. I do like a nice round ass though. not necessarily big, but one that has a nice curve to it. I'm slightly above average in pens size, and I consider that only part of my repertoire. My findings with women have been similar to bigfield. think I like variety more than anything, really.

 

[rousseau]

Define 'small', whether it matters depends on how small we're talking. Being a guy with lots of female friends I could point you to a number of examples of women who left or rejected a guy because of size, even one who was married. I've also had women tell me that too big can be bad too. The truth of it probably depends from person to person, but if you're in and around the average you're probably fine.

Breast size probably matters less to guys because they have less of a practical use. As long as they're there it's not a big selective factor. I've had partners all of different types and I tend to like smaller, perkier ones, although I've never seen a C-cup, always really small or really big.

 

[Bronzeage]

If you can't get someone to touch your penis, the next best thing is making them think about it. This simple concept is the genesis of all threads of this type.

 

[thebeave]

I think women prefer men who tend to be on the large side, but not so large that all she can do is hold it with both hands and cry.

 

[Loren Pechtel]

Boobs: When they get too big I find them unattractive. Example:

I would consider ideal more like:

but with a big caveat--unless they're fake (as the pictured ones almost certainly are) they will get saggy in time. Small boobs have very little sag with time. Thus, when you're in it for the long haul I consider small boobs best.

I'm arrow-straight, I have no interest in dicks other than my own.

 

[another1]

I'm more of a vagina man. Breasts with nipples I do prefer but size-wise I don't care. I'm attracted to people with vaginas and that is all I have to say for myself. I was born in one and I hope to die in one. Butts. Butts too. Love those butts, Mhm.

I wish my own penis had more size in the flaccid state. Jolly, there are penis-shaving techniques that may help. you've moved past this of course but still it is good to know how to do the hedges. Not just the classic "shave your balls" routine. I'll explain if you ask.

I used to be so ashamed until I went to jail and saw that almost all men have small, disgusting penises.

Women lie. If they think your penis is a major source of your self-esteem, they will talk you up and make fake noises during sex. All to make you feel better about yourself. Careful because they can chop you down in an instant if you play into it. Men do the same thing I suppose. But yeah, women are better at it.

 

[Jolly_Penguin]

Men do the same thing I suppose. But yeah, women are better at it.

More difficult for men to lie about their partner's penis and pretend its bigger than it is, when they have their own right there for comparison

 

[Eldarion Lathria]

Here's a big dick and a big boob.

Eldarion Lathria

 

[DBT]

That's certainly as big as they get! The current one being right up there.

 

[J842P]

I am a short bisexual man with a smaller than average penis. I was teased and bullied for all three as a youth, but have since lost any shame for any of the three. I have had my share of lovers. I have been rejected more times for my bisexuality than for my height, and more times for my height than for my penis size. And yet I doubt that is what you would expect. Porn and culture pushes the message that big dicks equal better lovers and that nobody wants cock if it is small. I have been told by lovers that they actually prefer my smaller size to the big ones; which could be lies or could be true. Being bisexual, I myself have never been particularly attracted to big or small but am turned off by both extremes. For me it needs to be big enough to get the job done but any bigger than that and it becomes less and less hot for me.

I have always been attracted to women with small breasts, though society and culture seem to push the idea that bigger breasts are better. I have known many women both before and after breast enhancement surgery, and in my opinion they ALWAYS looked better before than after. My stripper friends (my ex was one so I know many) vary wildly in their opinions on this. I have known strippers with big boobs who obviously do well because of them, and I have also known strippers who were nearly flat chested but were the highest earners in the clubs, got the surgery anyway, and lost a ton of business for it. I think it has far far far more to do with ratio and how the shape and size of the breasts suit the shape and size of the rest of the woman.

Curious about your thoughts on this. Do big dicks and big boobs make men/women more attractive to you? If so, how important is it in relation to other physical qualities (taking personality out of this and just talking raw physical attraction)?

I always thought the height thing was obvious, from the heterosexual perspective. Many women are quite blunt about the fact that they wouldn't find men shorter than them attractive.

 

[iolo]

It has always seemed to me that the obsession with big breasts was felt by bottle-fed babies who never grew up, and a big dick, when all's said, is just that, only worth discussion amongst little boys without much to be proud of. The height thing is part of the long, long time in which women have been infantilised. If it gets in your way, act powerful.

 

[thebeave]

I am a short bisexual man with a smaller than average penis. I was teased and bullied for all three as a youth, but have since lost any shame for any of the three. I have had my share of lovers. I have been rejected more times for my bisexuality than for my height, and more times for my height than for my penis size. And yet I doubt that is what you would expect. Porn and culture pushes the message that big dicks equal better lovers and that nobody wants cock if it is small. I have been told by lovers that they actually prefer my smaller size to the big ones; which could be lies or could be true. Being bisexual, I myself have never been particularly attracted to big or small but am turned off by both extremes. For me it needs to be big enough to get the job done but any bigger than that and it becomes less and less hot for me.

I have always been attracted to women with small breasts, though society and culture seem to push the idea that bigger breasts are better. I have known many women both before and after breast enhancement surgery, and in my opinion they ALWAYS looked better before than after. My stripper friends (my ex was one so I know many) vary wildly in their opinions on this. I have known strippers with big boobs who obviously do well because of them, and I have also known strippers who were nearly flat chested but were the highest earners in the clubs, got the surgery anyway, and lost a ton of business for it. I think it has far far far more to do with ratio and how the shape and size of the breasts suit the shape and size of the rest of the woman.

Curious about your thoughts on this. Do big dicks and big boobs make men/women more attractive to you? If so, how important is it in relation to other physical qualities (taking personality out of this and just talking raw physical attraction)?

I always thought the height thing was obvious, from the heterosexual perspective. Many women are quite blunt about the fact that they wouldn't find men shorter than them attractive.

Yep. I've always found it amusing how women will be pretty blunt about their desire for taller men, but seem offended if men say they prefer a woman with big boobs. I remember an ex-gf of mine telling me about the travails of one of her coworkers who was dating a guy who was shorter then her (she was 5'9", he was 5'7" as I recall). She nicknamed him "Tiny Teacher", and they had much fun making jokes about his height. Ultimately, they broke up because of his height. When I pointed out that the situation was no different than a guy dating a small breasted woman who broke up with her because he preferred large breasted women, she seemed shocked. Like it had never occurred to her there was a double standard here. Weird.

 

[SLD]

Well, it might depend on your own size as to what you are attracted to. Taller women might need a bigger dick to satisfy themselves. But there are plenty of shorter women who prefer a man with a smaller dick. Big dicks might be too much for them.

As for boobs, I too am not that into bigger boobs - way too big is a real turn off. I'm just more indifferent to big boobs. But I do find women showing cleavage to be sexually alluring no doubt.

SLD

 

[southernhybrid]

I can only speak as a straight woman, but I can tell you that most of the women I've discussed this with, whether black, white, young or older, rarely like big dicks. Big dicks can be very painful unless the woman is large herself. Technique is what matters. A woman can be satisfied with a finger, or a tongue, so why would we need a big dick? Dick size has little to do with a woman's orgasm in most cases. In fact, many women can't achieve orgasm through intercourse. That's why most of us don't care about the size of a man's dick.

So, if you're a guy with a small dick, it shouldn't be a problem, as long as you have good technique.

You're welcome!

 

[thebeave]

I can only speak as a straight woman, but I can tell you that most of the women I've discussed this with, whether black, white, young or older, rarely like big dicks. Big dicks can be very painful unless the woman is large herself. Technique is what matters. A woman can be satisfied with a finger, or a tongue, so why would we need a big dick? Dick size has little to do with a woman's orgasm in most cases. In fact, many women can't achieve orgasm through intercourse. That's why most of us don't care about the size of a man's dick.

So, if you're a guy with a small dick, it shouldn't be a problem, as long as you have good technique.

You're welcome!

Whew! Thanks!...er, what I mean is thanks for sharing this info for some of the less well-endowed guys out there who might be feeling bad.

 

[Toni]

In general, porn is fantasy and may have not much to do with what people like in real life.

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I can only speak as a straight woman, but I can tell you that most of the women I've discussed this with, whether black, white, young or older, rarely like big dicks. Big dicks can be very painful unless the woman is large herself. Technique is what matters. A woman can be satisfied with a finger, or a tongue, so why would we need a big dick? Dick size has little to do with a woman's orgasm in most cases. In fact, many women can't achieve orgasm through intercourse. That's why most of us don't care about the size of a man's dick.

So, if you're a guy with a small dick, it shouldn't be a problem, as long as you have good technique.

You're welcome!

Yep.

Boobs and dick: more than a mouthful is just waste.

 

[Jolly_Penguin]

In general, porn is fantasy and may have not much to do with what people like in real life.

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I can only speak as a straight woman, but I can tell you that most of the women I've discussed this with, whether black, white, young or older, rarely like big dicks. Big dicks can be very painful unless the woman is large herself. Technique is what matters. A woman can be satisfied with a finger, or a tongue, so why would we need a big dick? Dick size has little to do with a woman's orgasm in most cases. In fact, many women can't achieve orgasm through intercourse. That's why most of us don't care about the size of a man's dick.

So, if you're a guy with a small dick, it shouldn't be a problem, as long as you have good technique.

You're welcome!

Yep.

Boobs and dick: more than a mouthful is just waste.

Toni, you can speak to both? You are also bisexual? I thought I was the only one here.

 

[Bronzeage]

The only time I ever thought a bigger cock would be an advantage was when I had to piss over the side of my boat.