It does not matter how many times I write that I was attacked when I was extremely covered up. It doesn't matter that other women write about being attacked despite being dressed very modestly. I can't post a photo of that outfit because it went straight to the bottom of my closet, never to be worn again. I didn't even try to get the grass stains out of it. I just piled more stuff on top. I could never stand to look at those clothes again. And honestly: I never even wore that color again.
Can I just say, that it does matter, a lot, to me, when i'm replying to you. I know that you were attacked, and your daughter too, because you have said.
When I comment, it is usually about things in more general terms.
And in any case, the point about how dress does not affect the risks of being sexually assaulted is generally accepted. Well, I generally accept it. It may not be as widely accepted as it should. Incorrect perceptions persist, unfortunately, and not just to do with dress, or grooming or make up, but with behaviour. Even behaviour
during an assault! It is imo literally incredible that today, in somewhere like Spain for example, the victim of a gang rape (which was videod) can be blamed, in court, for not fighting back. Incredible, shocking and appalling. Literally.
I have mentioned other things that dress etc may be correlated to, such as unwanted attention etc but that is not rape or assault.
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I don't think anybody has said that they dress like that because they are hoping to have sex. Dressing to attract men sexually isn't the same thing as wanting to have sex.
My thought, also. "Trolling for sex" implies they're looking to get laid that night. I doubt most women who dress like that (even #3) are looking for sex
now. However, I do think many are either looking to please existing romantic partners or to hopefully find a romantic partner.
It's hard to know. As I said, that pic is very reminiscent, to me, of many of the sort of pics that my daughters were in, only a few years ago, and I am pretty certain that the girls in the pics were not necessarily even thinking about boys, even assuming they were straight. I'm not even sure it's fair to say that they were necessarily subconcsiously/naively signalling sexuality to boys either, to be honest. I think the fact that girls have several other reasons for dressing like that is way underplayed. My daughters were not specially naive in that way. They were bright, smart, savvy modern girls in many ways. Sometimes it's just not about the boys, or not much, or not as much as boys think it is.
Every girl and every context differs. For starters, there's 'girl culture' to do with peers. And then there's just personal preferences. And then, to throw into the mix, there's consumerism and the influences of modern media. That's an interesting one. Here's a question, are teenage girls (or boys) who get botox, doing it to 'please themselves' only? In some ways, yes (it's what they want, for themselves). In some ways no, imo. To 'consumerist capitalism', young people, indeed all people, are just potential purchasers (and guess what, nowadays they have more money). There was no teenage botox in my day, as far as I know. Why is there now?
A slightly separate even if related question to the OP, I know.