I would love to see a definition of patriarchal oppression that isn't nonsense.
I think patriarchal oppression (or indeed tyranny, which is another word I've heard used) is more problematic than saying patriarchy ('it does what it says on the tin') benefitted men more than women and subordinated and sidelined the latter, which by and large it did, and still does, where it exists. It's kind of a no-brainer, actually. If there's an issue of inaccuracy in terms of presentation or conception of the matter, it's got to do with patriarchy being overstated as an explanation, or being used over-simplistically without regard to the nuances and complexities, by some, that's all, possibly in some cases partly for ideological or political (with a small p) reasons rather than empirical reasons.
As to the rest of your comments questioning the above fundamental point, I've read and discussed them
all before, several times, and imo they're mostly pseudo-intellectual, non-fully-analysed, denialist rubbish, which, although containing some truths, do not dislodge the fact that patriarchy generally more often than not does and did what I said above. Sorry. That's my informed opinion.
So let's change the subject maybe? You don't think toxic masculinity is a problem and you don't think patriarchy is a problem, and it's not entirely clear to me that you even believe either exists. Pick something else. Go for a hat-trick of daft opinions all in the one thread, why don't you?
And stop banging on about third wave feminists, or even just feminists. They did not invent the term and they were not the first to promulgate it in modern times.