But you are getting dangerously close to the argument of, "God should do everything for us." I look outside and see a traffic jam. "Why would God allow me to drive in his traffic? He can easily just teleport us to our jobs. Therefore, God doesn't exist." But then you think, "If God can teleport us to our jobs, why doesn't he just do our jobs for us? Heck, why do we have to do ANYTHING AT ALL?"
That's ultimately where the argument goes. Do you agree God should do everything for us or not? You're laying on the couch and you don't want to get up for a beer. You say, "If God was my friend, he'd get me my beer! He must not exist!" Crazy, right?
Theists believe in God because they wish things were different. The universe isn't like how they want it. Death looks like finality, so they wish a powerful entity would remove the finality. Unusual events are taken as signs and miracles because, instead of invisibly doing his usual routine, it seems like the powerful entity has done something to get noticed. Which is reassuring because, however crappy life can be, at least there's a powerful entity around who MIGHT do something nice for you if you're a good boy.
Atheists say "it really doesn't look like your powerful entity is running the show or has any influence on it".
Then a theist says "You guys are saying my powerful entity doesn't exist because you believe things should be different!"
Uh, yeah... things should be different if there were a powerful entity along the line that Christians describe. Motherfucking duh.
But, no, it's not wishing things were different and then resenting that God isn't there to do it. You're assuming we're secret theists, following our dumb impulses to wish things to be different. Rationality involves noticing such impulses and not making an entire worldview out of them, as theists have done.