Several people in this thread have made the proposition that legal parenthood should be *automatically* anulled when it turns out the man who accepted fatherhood on the premise that is the biological father is not in fact the biological father. Have you really thought this through? Does it work both ways?
I mean, I have two kids aged 10 and 2, and I love those and believe I've earned myself a place in their life. If either of them turned out not to be biologically mine, I may be angry at their mother for lying to me but I'd certainly want to continue to play a role in their life. Under your proposal, I'd have no basis to claim even as much as visitation rights, right? Is that what you want?
That does not describe my position--I think visitation should follow from having been in the parental role for a sufficient period of time (even in a case where from the start everyone knows he's not the father) and I consider it a completely separate issue from child support.
Akso: Haven't you said elsewhere that child support should be tied to visitation rights/being open to shared custody, that unless there's genuine legitimate concern about the child's wellbeing because of the father's known violent behaviour, a mother should be unable to sue for shild support unless she fully cooperates with respect to visitation? Is this supposed to be a one-way street?
I don't see the positions as contradictory.
I'm saying non-parents who have been in the parental role should be allowed visitation--and apparently Australia agrees with me on this.
That's separate from saying that non-cooperation with visitation should be grounds to withhold child support. The current system is incredibly one-sided, the parent with primary custody can do basically anything they want with visitation and the courts won't do more than wag their finger, but they are draconian about child support even when there was no way for the person to pay. (Consider Desert Storm--a bunch of people got called up to the gulf, their jobs were protected but if they didn't manage to get the child support amount adjusted to their new income they could be royally screwed with no recourse. Even when the other parent deliberately delayed the court hearing to past the deployment date.)