That's not what I said or implied. Social security networks and available aid are not the signs of Dictatorship, just a decent society. The children of the very rich offer a safety net in the form of family wealth and presumably care. Should society at large not do the same for its struggling members?
Do you consider the super rich to be radicals, communists or something because they take care of their own when needed, endowments, trust funds, etc?
The problem with your approach is you assume everyone wants to succeed, not merely be a bum on whatever welfare system exists.
What percent of people (I realize it might be news to you that they are people, so read that part again if you have to) that receive public assistance do you think are happy living in the glorious luxury of food stamps, section 8 housing, and all the other luxuries of being poor in the US?
Let's assume it's as high as 10% (I suspect it's much, much lower than that). I, for one, am totally ok supporting those 10 people in order to help the other 90. You apparently, want to punish the 90 for the actions of the 10, which is very much like the current republican party. You'd fit right in.