No.   Only an idiot does not shoot to kill. Only a coward pretends to themselves it’s only ‘to stop.’
		
		
	 
Wrong. Shooting to stop carries a decent chance of killing the target, but that does not mean the aim is to kill. It's to stop.
	
	
		
		
			Three different times, close family members in different households, at different times, were victims of armed home robberies.
		
		
	 
Do you think your family members would have been justified using deadly force against the home invaders?
		
 
		
	 
Only a delusional coward doesn’t admit what ‘stop’ means.  If you have the guts to shoot at someone, you need to have the guts to admit that.  You’re responsible for whatever your bullet strikes.
I know I would feel differently if any of my family were physically harmed as a result of these armed home invasions but:  the only time a weapon was fired is when my uncle tried to grab his gun.  My uncle was not yet 50, was an extremely accurate shot, had handled guns all his life, was very physically fit and strong. He almost lost his life and my aunt likely would have been killed as well but the thieves  were not good shots—or not truly intent on harming anyone.
Now, if anyone had actually harmed any of those family members, or had made the first move to do so, not merely threaten if they didn’t comply—I’m sure that I would feel differently. 
I’m actually really impressed by the courage and the intelligence and resourcefulness each of these family members showed.   No one was hurt.  The only one who almost was hurt was the one who tried to grab his gun. To me, that’s an extremely powerful lesson.
I have no idea if anyone here has been in the circumstance where they know that they killed someone, however justifiably.  People here are typing words about how of course it’s justified! As though this were some stupid video game or gangster movie. 
As it happens, two of my cousins were snipers in Viet Nam.  I will never, ever forget the look in my cousin’s eyes when they asked him how many he killed.  Never.  The other cousin?  He spent the next 40 years or so trying to drunk himself to death, found Jesus and died early.   They were in a war, doing the job they were told was their duty to do.  It did not change them for the better. 
I don’t want to give the impression that I am all zen and would never dream of harming anyone.  That’s definitely not the case.   I’ve fought off unarmed attackers and I am definitely capable of doing very serious damage if the circumstance called for it.
But not over money or anything—or everything I own.  Hurt someone I care about and I will stop that.  Hurt a stranger? Yeah, I’ll stop that as well.  I’d much prefer to call the police but if necessary, I’ll stop things myself.