Are you fine with children starving to death in Yemen? I guess you are.
Conservatives: "save the children!" (unless they're dying of starvation in war torn countries or being separated from their families at the border).
Are you talking to me? Or Derec.
Personally, I see the whole situation to be very similar to a social situation with my ex wife.
My ex wife hates me. She blames me for every awful thing happening in her life. We are like two countries existing in the same social-circle world.
We had a bad relationship. Lots of arguments and disagreements. There were shouting matches. Things were BAD. I'm not going to say I wasn't as awful for her as she was for me. It's like that between america and Yemen, too.
Anyway, occasionally she will engage in a social attack against me. Most recently, she called me a pedophile. Prior to that, it was her saying I needed to file court papers for her to file a change of name form. Other times she mentions how awful I was in the relationship, and sometimes it is absolutely true that I was awful.
While the social group I am in does not like these attacks and judges her heavily for engaging in them, to the point of censure, this has not happened and is seen as a last resort.
The thing is, I can't give her advice, or help directly. When I tried volunteering to pay for her court filing and to testify as to the correctness of her request for a name change (or to file a sworn statement) on her behalf, while also making it clear that I cannot legally file her court papers for her, all that did was confuse her temporarily until she fell back into "Jarhyn is to blame for everything bad in my life" mode.
Instead, the only support I can actually give her comes in the form of accepting the real things I have done, admitting to them, apologizing, and working with our mutual friends to support her. In this way, the rest of my friends won't see her attacks as justified, and I don't suffer social damage.
The fact is, america is not in a position to fix this directly. We may never be in a position to provide direct aid meaningfully ever again. At best, we can admit what happened, show remorse, give no more leverage to their hate, and contribute dollars and efforts to international groups who can offer this aid that they need.