Toni
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These sorts of threads always make me really sad. Not surprised, though. I grew up in a family of bigots and racists of varying degrees. One relative (may he RIP) was actually a member of the Klan. As in KKK. You know: white sheets, burning crosses. I am ignoring the 'friend request' of a family member because his facebook page makes my stomach churn just too much, although I loved his father, who was a sweet man, may he also RIP. I have a cousin who was like a sibling, who adopted her child from a Central American country and whose nieces and nephews were born to her sister in law, who hailed from that same Central American country. Whose FB and whose husband's FB pages are filled with a lot of anti-immigrant posts, anti-Hispanice memes, and so on. That's not even counting parents and siblings. So, I'm a little bit desensitized to the overwhelming sense of grief that overt and covert racism often inspire in me.
The absolute honest truth is that none of the family members mentioned above, including the one who was a member of the Klan, thought/thinks of himself/herself as a racist or even a bigot. They just thought/think they are 'realistic.' Or that the joke/meme was 'funny.'
I have never met a single person who thought of himself or herself as a racist. Including members of the Klan.
Which is why the responses on this thread do not surprise me.
Which is really sad.
This is a very strange reaction to a semantic debate about the meaning of a word.
Are you worried if they narrow the definition of "racist" too much you won't be able to fling it about as much?
Huh. I don't find it strange. I don't even find it strange that people give lots of examples of behavior and attitudes that they consider to be 'racist' based upon their own personally expanded definition of racism, in a variation of the childhood: "But Ma! He hit me first and I didn't even take his stuff or make him bleed when I hit him."
I don't find this worrisome. My own life experiences have inured me to the sorts of posts I have read. It makes me sad but not worried.
I'm pretty used to people saying some really racist stuff while denying that they are racist.

that's a very laughable post and I assume it's a joke of course