Brian63
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...in the case of religious beliefs, at least of the type under discussion here, the dispute seems to be primarily factual, while the others (moral, political) center upon values that may have no easy reconciliation. How do you determine which moral or political views are faulty, when there is no disagreement about the facts but only about what to do concerning them?
That is not something that can be completely described on a single post here, but just briefly---
We find values that we do hold in common, and then strategize (using the tools of induction and deduction) which behaviors of ours will be most efficient at satisfying those goals.
If we both value gays having equal rights and to not suffer discrimination, we strategize and determine which behaviors we should engage in ourselves, that would be the most likely to achieve that value.
If 2 people, like a secularist and a Southern Baptist, do not share certain values on a particularly narrow topic (such as whether "under God" should be in the Pledge of Allegiance), then they would start at a level where they do share a common value, and then build up from there. They may agree that they both do not want Catholicism and the Pope's authority explicitly endorsed in schools. They can converse and figure out *why* they do not want that. The Baptist would provide some justification for their position, such as they do not believe in Catholicism and thinks it would be a violation of their rights to have public schools giving it privilege. The secularist can make the same appeal, but now applying it to the "under God" in general, so the Baptist now may sympathize and understand and relate with them more. They likely would not change their position overnight (it is deeply ingrained into their mind), but it starts them down the path to discovering their underlying motivations, flawed thinking, and biases.
Basically though, if you agree on the facts, to get people to change their minds on values and symphathize with yours more requires that they also understand some deeper value that you both hold, and how that holding that value should lead them to adopt Behavior X over Behavior Y. Convince them that their current strategy has a flaw of some kind in it, then show it is in their own overall best-interest to do adopt this other strategy.
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