Government rocket programs are basically pork these days.
Constellation: Cancelled
Orion: Cancelled
Space Launch System: It might get off the ground but it's never going to fly much as it's 10x the price per kg of the Super-Heavy.
The choice is whether to allow a handful of neo-aristocratic individuals to decide whether and how society should go into space; or whether to make those decisions democratically.
The decision made "democratically" is to waste the money on pork--the worst possible outcome.
"Democracy is the worst form of government – except for all the others that have been tried" - Winston Churchill
When your democracy is broken, the solution is to fix it, not to just replace it with an aristocracy.
Dictators, autocrats, and aristocrats are quite capable of doing stuff that their people would have wanted, had they been asked. But that doesn't make dictatorship, autocracy, or aristocracy better than democracy.
You're letting perfect be the enemy of good.
Yes, we should fix our democracy, but that's not going to be one bit easy. Meanwhile we should tilt at the windmill of fixing politics while Rome burns?