please take note i'm replying for the sake of conversation and exchanging ideas, i'm not trying to downplay what you're saying or deny it - i admit up front this is purely based on my own experience and i'm not trying to make broad statements about women in general.
(or men for that matter, though i suppose by necessity of even engaging in this topic i kind of have to, but my opinions are based on my own experience of being a male and of having talked to other men about such things over the course of my life)
I’d say they are less experienced and expect far less than older women.
eehhh i dunno about that, in that there's one important distinction between what you're suggesting and reality, and also that this statement is predicated on a false assumption about how sex works for men.
to the former: i have never encountered an older woman (re: by 'older' i mean in the mid 30s to late 40s range) who had 'experience' like in a job, where over time they developed skills or mastered techniques that were notable.
in my personal experience with age just comes baggage - the emotional burden of years of dealing with shitheads, the compounded neurosis of a lifetime of emotional damage from friends and family, and a deepening resistance to sexual liberation for the sake of some archaic notion of sexual prudishness that our culture shoves on both women in general and on women as they get older.
as i jokingly said earlier, pussy ages like bread not like wine - the sad fact is that purely in terms of value in the sexual marketplace most women don't get more appealing to most men as they age.
as for expectation, i've never encountered an older women who expected more sexually than a younger woman, i've only encountered older women being pre-disappointed in the idea enterprise due to a lifetime of let-down.
as for the latter: men need a hole, preferably moist, into which we can thrust repeatedly until donkey face.
while surely there are some percentage of men out there who require some sort of cornucopia of kink or perversion or whatever in order to get aroused and get off (and how i pity those poor bastards afflicted with such blighted sexual tendencies), for the majority of men sexual satisfaction comes simply from the biology which women (or other men, far be it from me to be narrow minded) bring to the table.
get hard, shove it somewhere that feels nice, release. the rest is just window dressing provided the first two are accommodated, which loops back around to the first point that started this sub-chain: as men get older and erections aren't a constant deluge with which we are inundated, it takes more than a stiff breeze to bring us to that place of being 'achingly' aroused, which is a state both joyous (if you have an outlet for it) and nightmarish (if you don't), and thus is the allure of younger hot women - men are highly visual, a younger person possessing the assorted characteristics which combine to be visually stimulating is more appealing to our sexuality than... well, not that.
In terms of decent technique
unfortunately in the grand scheme of things 'technique' stands for substantially less to a man than it does to a woman, for two major reasons:
1. biology counts for infinitely more than skill - the most technically proficient blowjob given by a woman who doesn't have a cute face or soft hands or the right mouth configuration to properly envelop your dick (or etc etc) will be a less compelling sexual partner than a hottie who may lack a thorough understanding of the layout of nerves in the penis, but has a soft mouth and low gag reflex and a lot of enthusiasm.
2. the difference, purely in terms of physical sensation, between a perfectly serviceable blowjob and the most amazing blowjob you've ever had in your life is substantially less for men than is the difference between perfectly serviceable cunnilingus and highly skilled cunnilingus is for women... so in the end, that just isn't something we tend to value particularly highly as a trait in women, at least in terms of it being a valued relationship commodity.
at least at the start, for most men with regards to most relationships, that doesn't matter whatsoever.
in terms of conversation, the bar is set at "don't be so annoying that i don't want to actively murder you in between when we're fucking" and anything past that is a surprising bonus but not something we really look for.
you have to remember that when it comes to mate selection criteria, for men it's that we want to fuck you first, and that we actually like you falls somewhere rather distantly down the list.
