The idea that large tides may be *necessary* for the development of intelligent/technological life, seems even more of a stretch based on extremely little information.
That's true, but unavoidable; By necessity all of our thoughts on the subject are highly speculative and woolly, and are more likely than not to be contradicted by future observations and data. It's hard to imagine a scenario in which moons like ours are common, though, however they may arise.
Personally, I don’t think there’s enough information to make a statement like “hard to imagine a scenario in which moons like ours are common”. My expertise is not in planetary system formation but my understanding is that in the early days of a protoplanetary disk, many objects may form. Some may collide, some may be ejected.l due to the developing gravitational dynamics at play.
The current idea for the moon’s formation was the collision between earth and a mars-sized object. We know for sure that earth sized and mars sized objects can form (because of the existence of earth and mars in the solar system) so for me it isn’t “hard to imagine” a scenario in which two of these objects collide.
There just isn’t a large enough sample size to tease out the underlying probabilities. Let’s say there was a 50% chance of a large moon forming, then the fact that of the three major rocky planets only one has a large moon is eminently consistent with such a probability. It is consistent with a wide variety of (as yet unknown) probability distributions.
I don’t know on what basis you can appear so sure as to the rarity of large moons like the earth’s. If there’s a study or paper you can point me to that discusses this I would happily read it. As I said it’s not my expertise. But I do know from my experience that dealing with have call “small number statistics” can lead one to erroneous conclusions. And I can give a specific example from my research if you’re interested.
Correct me if I'm wrong, but it is my understanding that tides are caused by the Moon's gravity, and gravity is a function of mass and the square of the distance. Thus a much smaller moon closer to Earth could exert the same gravitational effect of our Moon. For instance a moon that has a mass 1/4 of our Moon and it is half its distance from earth. So there is no need for a large moon, unless there are some restraints on the distance. Of course I'm no expert so maybe I just wrote a load of BS
A moon 1/4 of the size of the one we have would still be pretty big by comparison to the two tiddly little things Mars has. The Moon is in the order of a
million times the size of Phobos, Mars's largest moon.
Our moon is already pretty close, as moons go. But it certainly could be closer, and it used to be.
The absolute closest it could orbit is about 19,000km, the Roche Limit, closer than which distance tidal forces would pull it apart. Phobos would disintegrate before it got close enough to Earth to replicate our Moon's tidal effects. (Phobos is probably also not as structurally strong as our Moon, and would have a larger Roche Limit).
The Moon is slowly moving away from the Earth (also due to tidal forces); The Moon is about 380 million kilometres away today, but 2.5 bilion years ago it was only about 320 million km from Earth.