This is a perfect example of concentrating on the rights/welfare of the sperm ejaculator and ignoring the welfare effects on the child and the woman.
Not really sure where I fall on this. I would like to see you make an argument or show some logic. Maybe show how Loren's logic is flawed, rather than just emoting and accusing people of "ignoring the welfare effects on the child and the woman".
Saying the woman should pay, since she decided to keep the child, does leave the question open as to what Loren says should happen if she doesn't have the ability to pay. Perhaps that is where the man steps in, or perhaps where society at large should step in (if he was raped, etc and has no more responsibility for the pregnancy than you or I). So long as the child is paid for, by her, the father, or society at large, it is a wash financially speaking, so that's not "ignoring the welfare of the child".
So that leaves your concern for the welfare of the woman. Since the father took place in the sex act and caused the pregnancy equally with the mother, I don't think anybody will argue the man shouldn't pay at least half the price of an abortion. What if he'll pay the full amount for it? Does that cover the welfare concern of the woman? I am thinking you will say know (and I agree). She may have complications from the abortion and may have health effects from the pregnancy until the abortion is done, which may result in medical bills, and pain and suffering, etc. The man should pay for half of that, since again, he is half responsible for the pregnancy.
I'm sure you disagree with Loren's positions, and with my own (which seem to be in between the two of you) and have some opinions and ideas on these details, so why not present those, instead of emoting and calling people despicable and telling them "they ignore the welfare" of people. Your post and Derec's last post look exactly the same to me.