That's a fair point. But it can be argued that the Israelis have been pushed into a corner by half a century of non-stop Palestinian agression. Hamas is just the latest iteration of this kind of behaviour. And fine, most Palestinians are too young to be able to take responsiblity for the actions of PLO. But it just doesn't fucking end. The Palestinians just keep going.
And whose fault is it that Palestinians can't hold elections? Islam doesn't seem to be conducive to democracy. But whose fault is that? Hardly the Israelis. So why hold them responsible?
You’re saying “it just doesn’t end”—but what you’re describing as endless Palestinian aggression is actually an ongoing cycle of displacement, occupation, and resistance, not some ahistorical pathology. You’re treating Palestinian violence as an inexplicable constant, while Israeli violence is framed as reluctant, forced, justified. That’s not analysis. That’s narrative control.
Yes, Palestinians have a history of armed struggle. But they also have a long, consistent history of nonviolent resistance, political diplomacy, and attempts at statehood—all of which were met with assassinations, bombings, land seizures, and broken agreements. You mention the PLO—well, when the PLO recognized Israel and renounced terrorism in the 1990s, what followed? Oslo. And what followed Oslo? More settlements, more checkpoints, and a peace process used to entrench occupation. That’s not ancient history. That’s why the so-called “endless conflict” keeps going: because power never negotiated in good faith.
Now to your next point: “Who’s fault is it Palestinians can’t hold elections?” You deflect to Islam as if democracy is incompatible with it. That’s not only historically false—it’s an old orientalist trope used to cover for real-world policy. In reality, Israel has routinely interfered in Palestinian democratic processes. In 2006, when Hamas won elections that were internationally monitored and certified, Israel and the U.S. immediately moved to isolate and sanction the new government. When that created a political schism, Israel deepened the divide, allowing Hamas to consolidate power in Gaza while weakening Fatah in the West Bank—a divide that suited Israeli policy perfectly.
You say, “Hardly the Israelis’ fault.” But Israel controls Gaza’s airspace, maritime borders, import/export infrastructure, population registry, and even the electromagnetic spectrum. Gaza is not independent—it is a blockaded, occupied, and manipulated territory, and has been since long before Hamas took power. To claim Israel bears no responsibility for the political vacuum it helped create is not just factually wrong—it’s willful blindness.
And here’s the heart of it: even if your frustration is genuine, frustration never justifies flattening cities or starving civilians. Your argument walks right up to the edge of justifying genocide—not with malice, but with exhaustion. But people don’t lose their right to live because you’re tired of hearing about them. And that’s the line too many are willing to cross.
You don’t have to love Hamas. You shouldn’t. But if your response to every critique of Israeli power is to shift blame back onto a besieged, stateless population, then you’re not defending democracy or security—you’re defending the right of the powerful to punish the powerless indefinitely.
There is no moral clarity without accountability on both sides. And if that balance offends you, it might be because you weren’t looking for clarity to begin with—just a justification for the suffering of people you’ve already decided don’t deserve better.
Hamas has built their military bases on top of hospitals. I think that gives Israel a free pass to bomb hospitals. Yes, really. Hamas knew the obvious outcome of making this choice.
On the starving children. Yes, that's terrible. Israel shouldn't. But they also need to break Hamas. If starving them out is the only way, then it's the only way. Which makes me sad. But Hamas is such an extreme and vile organisation, they just have to go.
What you’re saying is exactly how war crimes happen. Not by accident. Not by rage. But by people convincing themselves that atrocity is a sad necessity—just this once.
Let’s be clear: even if Hamas embeds near or inside civilian infrastructure, it does not give Israel a “free pass” to bomb hospitals. That’s not my opinion. That’s black letter international law. The Geneva Conventions, Additional Protocol I, and customary international humanitarian law all require that any military strike must distinguish between combatants and civilians, and must be proportional, even if the enemy violates those same laws. You don’t get to say, “They used human shields, so we wiped out the shield.” That’s not defense. That’s a second war crime.
And starving children? You say, “Yes, that’s terrible. Israel shouldn’t. But…” There is no “but” here. Starvation as a method of warfare is explicitly banned under Article 54 of Additional Protocol I to the Geneva Conventions. It is a war crime under the Rome Statute of the International Criminal Court. You just admitted that it’s happening, that it’s terrible—and then excused it because it might “break Hamas.”
What you’re describing is not just the logic of collective punishment—it’s the logic of siege warfare against a civilian population. And history remembers what that is, whether it’s Leningrad, Sarajevo, or Gaza.
You say it makes you sad. Good. It should. But sadness doesn’t justify surrendering your moral compass. If your solution to a vile organization is to make millions suffer, the majority of whom are women and children, then what exactly are you fighting for? Justice? Peace? Human rights? Or just dominance?
You say Hamas “has to go.” Fine. But if the path to that is flattening neighborhoods, bombing hospitals, and engineering famine—then what you’re advocating isn’t liberation. It’s annihilation.
And one day, history will ask not whether you felt sad—but whether you looked at those children and said, “Yes, really.”
There's been almost zero popular Palestinian movement against Hamas. Palestinians have a huge politically active expat community. There's no voices I've ever seen speaking up against Hamas. It's all against Israel. Sure, Gaza is not a democracy. And authoritarian. But that doesn't give a free pass to Palestinians to support them.
You’re assuming that silence equals support. That’s a dangerous and lazy assumption—especially when we’re talking about people living under authoritarian rule, under blockade, and under constant threat of bombardment. Gaza is not a democracy, and it’s not a safe place to dissent. Speaking out against Hamas in Gaza can get you imprisoned, tortured, or killed. That’s not speculation—that’s well-documented by Palestinian human rights organizations like Al-Mezan and international watchdogs like Human Rights Watch.
You say there’s “almost zero popular Palestinian movement against Hamas.” Of course there isn’t—because they’re crushed by Hamas and bombed by Israel. What protest movement thrives in a war zone? When you can’t leave, can’t gather, can’t speak freely, and face drones overhead and militias on the ground, public dissent becomes a death sentence. This is not passive consent. It’s fear, survival, and despair.
As for the diaspora: again, you’re conflating anger at Israel with endorsement of Hamas. Palestinians outside Gaza often do criticize Hamas—but they also know that the vast majority of the suffering comes from Israeli military power, not Hamas’ misrule. That’s not tribalism. That’s basic proportionality. You’ve set up a rhetorical trap: if Palestinians condemn Hamas, they’re useful; if they condemn Israel, they’re radical. That’s not moral reasoning. That’s control.
Your entire argument rests on the idea that Palestinians somehow “owe” the world visible, sustained, suicidal resistance to a group that Israel itself helped rise to power—and then used as a justification to bomb them. That’s not moral accountability. That’s demanding oppressed people perform their purity before you’ll recognize their humanity.
No one’s giving Hamas a free pass. The difference is, I don’t believe the only way to oppose Hamas is by obliterating 2.2 million people. You seem to.
You have a point. I don't disagree. The difference lies in how extreme the 7/10 attacks were. We (as in humanity) can't allow an organisation like that stay in power. That would be unacceptable. That's the main lesson we learned from WW2. Yes, it sucks for the starving children of Gaza. But war is never pretty
I appreciate that you’re engaging seriously here. But this is where the moral center either holds—or collapses entirely.
Yes, October 7 was horrific. No one should minimize it. Massacring civilians and taking hostages are war crimes. But what you’re arguing now is that because Hamas committed atrocities, Israel is justified in committing them too—just more slowly, with state approval, and on a far larger scale.
You say, “We can’t allow an organization like that to stay in power.” Fine. But obliterating an entire civilian population to remove that organization isn’t justice—it’s atrocity management. And it’s precisely what we were supposed to have learned from World War II: that the horror of one side’s crimes never licenses the other side to erase the laws of war and humanity itself.
You say it “sucks for the starving children of Gaza.” No. It doesn’t just “suck.” It violates the laws of armed conflict. It violates the Rome Statute. It violates basic decency. Children are not acceptable collateral in your war against an ideology. When you say “war is never pretty,” what you’re really saying is that some lives are expendable—just not yours.
Here’s the reality: you can remove Hamas without razing Gaza. You can pursue justice without abandoning it. What you’re defending now isn’t necessity—it’s moral surrender. It’s the normalization of mass death, because the targets are politically easy to dismiss.
We don’t get to mourn October 7 while excusing what’s happening every day after it. If we do, then we didn’t learn anything from WWII—we just chose a different group to dehumanize.
And there you lost me. I don't think that follows at all. Yes, I accuse those who refuse to assign guilt to the Palestinians as racists.
After WW2 we blamed it all on Hitler. It's was a convenient lie. The blame for Germany's war crimes was shared by millions of Germans. We just decided to forgive and move on, for the sake of world peace. It's the same deal the Gaza. They share a lot of the guilt for Hamas' actions. But first, Hamas needs to go.
You didn’t lose me—I think you’re just uncomfortable confronting where your logic leads.
Let’s take your WWII analogy seriously, because you’re misapplying it in ways that actually undermine your case.
Yes, after the war, many Germans were guilty—through action, inaction, or support. But how did the world respond? Not by flattening every German city after Hitler fell. Not by starving German children to “break Nazism.” In fact, the exact opposite: we launched the Marshall Plan. We rebuilt the country we had just fought, because the lesson of WWII wasn’t just “destroy fascism”—it was don’t let collective punishment become your tool to do it.
That’s the part you’re leaving out.
You say Gazans “share the guilt” for Hamas, and therefore Hamas “needs to go”—as if that equation gives carte blanche to destroy Gaza to save it. But Hamas isn’t gone, and Gaza is already in ruins. So what you’re arguing is that mass civilian death is the necessary cost for a political goal. That’s not post-war justice. That’s siege warfare in real time.
Even if you were right that some share guilt, that does not justify starving children, bombing hospitals, or wiping out entire neighborhoods. Justice is not served by punishing people based on proximity, ethnicity, or geography. That’s not holding people accountable. That’s how ethnic cleansing is rationalized.
The truth is, when you say “first, Hamas needs to go,” you’re not arguing strategy—you’re making peace conditional on mass suffering. But if you truly cared about a future beyond Hamas, you’d be more worried about how obliterating Gaza now is ensuring that whatever comes after Hamas may be even worse. Despair is the soil extremism grows in. And you are watering it.
So no—I don’t refuse to assign guilt. I refuse to accept guilt as a death sentence. That’s not justice. That’s how civilizations lose their soul while pretending to save it.
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