Politesse
Lux Aeterna
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I didn't criticize Confucius, or even bring him up... and neither of us quoted him, though you attempted a vague paraphrase.And do we know what Confucius said about affection or tolerance for nonfriends? Quoting Confucius giving a tidbit of advice that's very specifically about friendship, and Jesus talking about affection for nonfriends, would be an example of quote mining if it was intended (as it very much appears to be) to show one of these persons was only "transactionally kind" and the other wasn't.The teaching is not that you should consider everyone your friend, but to love other people whether they are your friend or not. All manner of people were brought into this world. They will exist, and you will exist, alongside one another whether or not you form any affectionate or even tolerant feelings for them in your heart. From Jesus' perspective, you can only claim to be kind if you are kind to those you do not feel deserve it; patting yourself on the back for being only transactionally kind is silly, as nearly everyone is kind to those they are personally fond of. History's pages are littered with monstrous dictators who were nothing but kind and generous to their friends and family. But in Christian thinking, at least, virtue is only virtue if it is retained in extremis.
His concept of benevolence among human beings was actually very similar to Jesus' perspective on the kingdom of God, in many respects at least; they were in agreement that a human has a certain social duty, but that if one wished to be seen as virtuous, one must exceed the expectations of that duty, not simply meet them. As I recall, Confucius had a very skeptical attitude toward friendship, at least if it resulted in showing partiality toward some and not others, which a junzi (gentleman) should never do.