Unless you are disabled or mentally ill, welfare should be abolished. Have too many kids because you were recklessly having sex? Too bad. This would teach people they can't be reckless and suck on the government teet. People would think twice instead of saying, "I can have all these kids and get more free money from the government!"
Every parent with a child knows how this works. Is your child more likely to get a job if you give them free money every week? Or less likely?
I probably shouldn't feed your nonsensical post any attention, but perhaps someone else here, who is more reasonable, needs to know the truth.
I've never met a person who had children so they could get more government benefits. I've worked with some wonderful women who made the minimum wage or about 50 cents more than the minimum wage. Some of them did have more children than I would have had, but what I learned is that in many, if not in most cases, these women adored their children. Sometimes when you're poor and don't have many opportunities, family is the only thing that gives you purpose and joy in life.
If you think women shouldn't have so many children, then you should be an advocate for better access to good family planning provided by public health or Planned Parenthood. Certainly a person who thinks women are having too many children should support affordable education for women, because statically those are the only things that enable women to have to have goals other than having large families. Then again, considering that the birth rate in the US is declining rapidly, where are all these women who are having too many children?
And, as others have mentioned, why should innocent children who never asked to be born, be punished by their mother's decision to give them birth? What difference does it make if their birth was due to carelessness, or poor access to family planning methods?
And, I'm sure you know how your opinions look. You obviously love the drama that you instill in these discussions, which is why many of us are doubtful that you are sincere in what you post here. Maybe we just don't want to believe that people have views as ignorant and mean as the things you post.
But, if you are for real, why is it that anti abortion folks almost always seem to care more about a fertilized egg or fetus than they do about the child who has been born and needs help? Why do so many conservatives and evangelicals scream about Roe v Wade but are disgusted by poor families who have children? Why is it okay to put children in cages when their parents bring them to our borders? Oh I get it! To them, the fetus is so precious, but once the child is born, it's just fine to let that child live in poverty and suffer the consequences of being raised in a society that judges the poor harshly, and that denies that poor child the means to survive and get ahead.
So, if anyone besides Half judges poor women harshly if they have children, please be sure to make a donation to Planned Parenthood ASAP!