abaddon
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My dictionary says pride is "feeling deep pleasure or satisfaction as a result of one's own achievements, qualities, or possessions or those of someone with whom one is closely associated". So it's not strictly about achievement.
People need to not twist the word's meaning, focusing on just the negative definitions and ignoring the positives, to make their points. So many other words would have clarified the point: conceit, arrogance, snobbery, et al.
Wanting to feel proud is a tremendous motivator to achieve and do it well. A conceit that gets in the way of performance is something else than pride.
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People need to not twist the word's meaning, focusing on just the negative definitions and ignoring the positives, to make their points. So many other words would have clarified the point: conceit, arrogance, snobbery, et al.
Pride as a feeling of deep pleasure in accomplishment, one's beauty or intelligence or talent, or association with other valued persons, is a categorical good for being a healthful pleasure.How does it benefit you to go around and be proud of stuff?
Wanting to feel proud is a tremendous motivator to achieve and do it well. A conceit that gets in the way of performance is something else than pride.
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That's body-hating Christianity for you. "Resist feeling" what you naturally feel.So, how do you escape the old vortex effect of being proud of your humility? Isn't that the basic trope of the religionists who see pride as the basis of man's sinful nature?
In his autobiography, Benjamin Franklin writes about meeting a woman who was bedridden. She spent all her waking hours in prayer, except for once a week, when a Priest visited to hear her confession. He asked, what sin could she possibly committed, and the woman replied, "The closer I feel to God, the more difficult it becomes to resist feeling pride in my accomplishment."