Every time I see this thread title I remain confused and frustrated about exactly what point Janice Rael was trying to make. Thebeave was as confused as I was and asked her about her point in post
#12 but a response was never posted.
It has always been obvious to me that a person should be judged only by their actions. Involuntary associations with other people (like ancestors and other family members) have no actual bearing on my judgement of any individual's quality.
Your father died saving 50 kids trapped in a burning building? So what? Please pay your delinquent child support instead of racking up a bigger tab at your favorite dive bar, dirtbag.
Your mom helped a serial killer hide the bodies and still visits him in prison? So what? Thank you so much for bringing me a doughnut this morning, you always make my day brighter.