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Raising the bar on what to accept as humans

Simple... the answer is the same as the need for traffic signals. Individuals can manage things quite easily. Groups of people are incapable of managing things.
I agree with this sentiment more strongly than I would have expected. You and I almost never agree on things.




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About as strongly as I expected. I'm still curious as to why traffic signals, which are agreed-upon mechanisms that only work because everybody knows what they mean and expects everyone else to know what they mean, are somehow an example of individuals managing themselves rather than a perfect illustration of what groups of people can accomplish through mutual trust and participation in public life. Jimmy's assertion that people only obey traffic lights because they're afraid of the cops is just laughable. They're not afraid of the cops, they're afraid of getting smashed by an oncoming car, and the best way to avoid that is to follow the traffic signals. It's better for each individual to adhere to a set of rules that applies to them all collectively, and makes individual behavior more predictable as a result.

Sure, most people obey traffic laws because they don’t want to get smashed. But there’s a subset of people who obey them because of the potential retribution. And even with that threat behind it, there are lots of people who speed, change lanes without signaling, change lanes in intersections, run red light and stop signs, and drive drunk. Clearly, expecting people to “do the right thing” simply because it’s sensible is insufficient.

This sort of thing is part of why both anarchism and libertarianism never make it beyond a philosophical stage. Much as I like the idea of libertarianism, reality makes it infeasible. There are some ideals I hold dear, and some concepts that I advocate... but in real life, people just don’t behave the way they need to behave to make it work. The same is true for communism and socialism... and pretty much any “ism” you can name.

People are neither consistent nor rational, most of the time. We’re just as much an animal as a wombat.


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1) What nature are you looking at for your comparison here? I suspect your nature is well... not actually found in nature.

What do you mean? In regard to nature (genetics) vs nurture (shit that is inflicted upon you after birth).

2) While I agree with the general position against abuse, I think you’re attributing waaaaay more to it than is reasonable, and assuming a muuuuch more frequent incidence rate than actually exists.

In what regard? The trauma that is inflicted upon us during childhood is monumental in scale and effects us in numerous ways--often autonomically--later in life. Iow, we don't even recognize how deeply ingrained are those first cognitive imprints.

You--your personality; your beliefs; your identity; literally everything that makes "you" you--are entirely made of the experiences of your childhood and not just in a Freudian sense; in a neurocognitive sense. Note, that is not necessarily nature; that is nurture (i.e., grooves dug in the vinyl of your plastic brain, you dig).

I think you put far more weight on nurture than is supportable. I’d guess that about 75% of what makes me me is innate, either genetic or epigenetically influenced. Only about 25% is from social factors. The window through which I see the world is nurture (it’s part of what defines generational differences), but the house in which that window resides is most likely inherent. Of course, that’s just a guess, and I suspect that it’s a different split for different people.

Beyond that, I think most people don’t have any significant childhood trauma to speak of, certainly not enough to account for the sweeping impact that you’re attributing to it.


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I don't share your view about dictatorships being the inevitable result of giving more democratic control to people, with its strange implication that keeping things closer to how they are is therefore less likely to lead to a dictatorship. The societies that have attempted democratic self-rule did not devolve into chaos because of some internal flaw that sparked a wave of resentment, but because outside forces would not tolerate their existence. The Spanish revolution of 1936, the Paris Commune, and the early months of the Russian revolution are all examples of budding functional societies run on libertarian socialist principles, and to say that they met their end because of some flaw inherent in the ideology ignores the role of reactionary and counter-revolutionary forces.

I am categorically NOT making that argument. I am saying the flaw is inherent in humanity, not necessarily the ideology, but then inherent to humanity in a nurture sense, not necessarily a nature sense.

Iow, we can't seem to help fucking up our children in ways that keep this cycle rotating (or corkscrewing). And that's even among families with the best of intentions and the most enlightened parenting (or so the parents believe).

I grew up from 1-10 in the suburbs of St. Louis and then from 10-17 in Eugene, Oregon. I've seen the strictest of Republican parental oversight and the haziest of "hippie" it's all good "buddy" oversight and in almost every single instance the kids naturally rebel against whatever it is the parents are.

Iow, the drive to rebel--to stand out, to form one's own identity--may be an inherent part of our "nature" but it is also an inherent part of our "nurture." Not so much genetic as sociological? Fundamental, having more to do with the nature of identity than anything neurological? Does that help clarify what I'm talking about?

This may simply suggest that it's too late for us as a species, as the only way to make society fair in one place is to have it be fair across the globe, but that's a very different kind of problem than the suggestion that immovable forces of human nature or an in-built Catch-22 behind autonomous self-rule

Again, not nature. Nurture. The flaws--the ones that make the biggest problems--are in the nurture side, not the nature side of the equation. Well, absent inclusion of serious problems like brain damage or the like.

And the Catch-22 is that it evidently takes a murderer to stop all murder. Iow, it evidently takes someone like a Hitler--with idyllic dreams of a Thousand Year Reich of bio-engineered "super men"--to create any such utopian environment for enlightened self-rule to exist as a condition for its existence. You follow? Hence the Catch-22. In order for anarchism to exist, the conditions for anarchism must first exist, which means we need to first eradicate anything in our nurture, first and foremost, that could exacerbate things in our nature. Capisca?

People are not as predictable as politicians calculate they are, and nobody has yet discovered the pattern to our shifting tendencies.

I obviously disagree. Tell me what kind of abuse you suffered in your childhood and I can pretty much plot your entire life's narrative from there. Not 100% of course--as that's absurd--but likely more than enough to be able to profile you for how you'd vote on various policies and the like. Political analysts do this all the time in fact. As do advertisers and marketers etc. Hell, psychologists and psychiatrists as well, of course.

It's not too difficult, so long as you have knowledge of certain variables.

The entire discussion about how to govern ourselves has taken unexpected turns in the era of the internet, which makes possible a level of participation that was unimaginable mere decades ago.

Except that the problem we are now discovering--since the technology is still in its infancy--and as demonstrated very clearly in the 2016 (and before that, 2008) election, is that it artificially inflates the fringe that has normally, historically been ignored precisely because it was the fringe; the extreme ends of the political spectrum.

It's not because the ideas are unknown or even valuable; its precisely the opposite in fact. It's because the new medium only celebrates and raises up the extreme and the unobtainable.

With the newspaper and even TV news, the maxim used to be: if it bleeds, it ledes. Iow, blood and death--being primal fears--is what sold the newspapers. With the internet--with social media--that maxim has exponentially increased such that ONLY blood goes viral. It's the exact flipside to what the mainstream was.

That is not a good thing. That is, in fact, a very bad thing, as, once again, Trump's occupancy proves in spades.

We need to engage these ideas as real options instead of remaining satisfied with what has been presented to us.

Categorically false. And an excellent example of precisely what I am talking about.

You are not understanding a fundamental principle; that all of life is lived in the center. You are thinking magically, even though you may not realize it or cop to it (and are probably offended by my making any such declaration; I don't know you, after all, how dare I and the like). But this is the exact problem with Sanders' hucksterism.

It confuses broad thinking with magical thinking. There is nothing wrong with thinking broadly; i.e, what can we accomplish with the given parameters? Magical thinking, however, is shit like, so long as we have 70-80% of the entire population supporting us after the election we can do the impossible...

Well, yeah, that's almost tautological, but how the fuck do we GET to 70-80% of the entire population supporting somebody, let alone after the election? And no amount of you or I or anyone itt or on the internet talking about how great it would be to have magical ponies is ever going to get us magical ponies. Why? Because magical ponies don't exist.

But "medicare for all" COULD exist if only...................wait for it............70-80%.

See the problem now?

The way to get "medicare for all" is to never say the words "medicare for all." It is through incremental changes over time, not by everyone sitting around a bong and imagining peace in our time.

It's important to me that you understand I'm NOT saying no one should think big--to think broadly. I am not saying that. What I AM saying is that we need to think intelligently and within the parameters of the system, because there is no changing it absent a more violent approach.

Again, this isn't a failure of "vision" in me or the like; this is the cold hard reality of how shit is. And not "according to Koy"; according to the objective parameters that readily exist and are on display for anyone to see.

Rejecting that notion is certainly within anyone's purview, but it does the actual "conversation" no good to do that, as, once again was painfully demonstrated by the Sanders zombie civil war primary if by nothing else I've argued.
 
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I think you put far more weight on nurture than is supportable.

I obviously disagree.

I’d guess that about 75% of what makes me me is innate

And how are you supporting that? Self-diagnosis?

either genetic or epigenetically influenced.

So, the way you vote was genetically transferred somehow?

Only about 25% is from social factors.

Again, what are you basing that upon? Granted, I haven't provided any basis for my own assertions, but then we're talking about identity and how it gets formed and so you would be asserting that 75% of your identity is genetically inherited. That seems prima facie/counterintuitively high, so if you care to explore that, by all means.

The window through which I see the world is nurture (it’s part of what defines generational differences), but the house in which that window resides is most likely inherent.

Ok, but I still don't see how that constitutes 75%, but regardless of any actual percentages, it's still fundamentally the same condition; there is a house and there is that which looks through the window. It is that which looks through the window, however, that votes; not the house (or the window).

Of course, that’s just a guess, and I suspect that it’s a different split for different people.

Indeed.

Beyond that, I think most people don’t have any significant childhood trauma to speak of

Personally, I have never met a single person where that statement is true (and I include myself in that and I had--by almost every standard I've seen demonstrated in other people's stories--a comparatively Brady Bunch happy childhood).

Many people are typically not aware of anything traumatic, but that's a different matter.

certainly not enough to account for the sweeping impact that you’re attributing to it.

Well, again, I obviously disagree.
 
The effects (good and bad) of nurture become more apparent as I get older. It's a much bigger deal than I thought, even 10-15 years ago.
At <25 years of age, I discounted it almost entirely. I was wrong.
 
I obviously disagree. Tell me what kind of abuse you suffered in your childhood and I can pretty much plot your entire life's narrative from there. Not 100% of course--as that's absurd--but likely more than enough to be able to profile you for how you'd vote on various policies and the like.

Oh, what fun! I suffered no abuse in childhood. Had loving and stable family. Analyze away!
 
I obviously disagree. Tell me what kind of abuse you suffered in your childhood and I can pretty much plot your entire life's narrative from there. Not 100% of course--as that's absurd--but likely more than enough to be able to profile you for how you'd vote on various policies and the like.

Oh, what fun! I suffered no abuse in childhood. Had loving and stable family. Analyze away!

That's for you to do. But later - much later.
(FWIW, I had what might be called an idyllic childhood. But the effects are real, and much greater than you suspect.)
 
I obviously disagree. Tell me what kind of abuse you suffered in your childhood and I can pretty much plot your entire life's narrative from there. Not 100% of course--as that's absurd--but likely more than enough to be able to profile you for how you'd vote on various policies and the like.

Oh, what fun! I suffered no abuse in childhood. Had loving and stable family. Analyze away!

It has been my experience that anyone who makes such a claim is most likely in heavy denial, but you could be the exception. That, however, would not necessarily change anything as of course it is not a binary proposition.

And I certainly have no reason to believe you would be in any way truthful or exhaustive in anything you related should I "analyze away," but by all means, spill it all and spare no detail about your upbringing. My guess would be that even in your whitewashing you would inadvertently reveal something that others can readily point to, if not just myself, but we're getting ahead of ourselves.

Start a new thread and begin with a description of your family and any anecdotes you can recall about your childhood and I'll get right on it.
 
The effects (good and bad) of nurture become more apparent as I get older. It's a much bigger deal than I thought, even 10-15 years ago.
At <25 years of age, I discounted it almost entirely. I was wrong.

Without getting too Freudian about it all, I agree. I'm realizing more and more that we are actually born "backwards" and that childhood is actually when we are the wisest as it is only in infancy that we are fully and completely "in the now" as it were. Everything else is stored clutter. It's like we start out with this great big beautiful empty space and then spend the rest of our lives filling it with shit we either don't need or don't really want. Periodically we clean it and purge some of the junk, but for the most part, we're just pack rats.

But I digress :D
 
I obviously disagree. Tell me what kind of abuse you suffered in your childhood and I can pretty much plot your entire life's narrative from there. Not 100% of course--as that's absurd--but likely more than enough to be able to profile you for how you'd vote on various policies and the like.

Oh, what fun! I suffered no abuse in childhood. Had loving and stable family. Analyze away!

It has been my experience that anyone who makes such a claim is most likely in heavy denial...

I put it down to good old fashioned lack of self-awareness. Denial is more likely to be a factor where childhood trauma is involved.
 
It has been my experience that anyone who makes such a claim is most likely in heavy denial...

I put it down to good old fashioned lack of self-awareness. Denial is more likely to be a factor where childhood trauma is involved.

Trausti does not strike me as lacking in self-awareness, so I'm going to go with denial. And, again, anyone that makes such a blanket claim is usually suffering from some form of repression. In that regard, I am definitely a Freudian.

It's like homophobia; the clearer the insistence/vehemence that they're not gay, usually means they are in fact gay.
 
It has been my experience that anyone who makes such a claim is most likely in heavy denial...

I put it down to good old fashioned lack of self-awareness. Denial is more likely to be a factor where childhood trauma is involved.

Trausti does not strike me as lacking in self-awareness, so I'm going to go with denial. And, again, anyone that makes such a blanket claim is usually suffering from some form of repression. In that regard, I am definitely a Freudian.

It's like homophobia; the clearer the insistence/vehemence that they're not gay, usually means they are in fact gay.

Why would you assume anyone had childhood trauma? Do you need to retain your worldview? Is it that fragile?
 
Trausti does not strike me as lacking in self-awareness, so I'm going to go with denial. And, again, anyone that makes such a blanket claim is usually suffering from some form of repression. In that regard, I am definitely a Freudian.

It's like homophobia; the clearer the insistence/vehemence that they're not gay, usually means they are in fact gay.

Why would you assume anyone had childhood trauma?

"Assume"? Who said it was an assumption?

Do you need to retain your worldview? Is it that fragile?

Hey, lookey there. Grist for the mill. Please, by all means start that thread. I can't wait to psychoanalyze what's no doubt floating around in there.
 
I think you put far more weight on nurture than is supportable. I’d guess that about 75% of what makes me me is innate, either genetic or epigenetically influenced. Only about 25% is from social factors. The window through which I see the world is nurture (it’s part of what defines generational differences), but the house in which that window resides is most likely inherent. Of course, that’s just a guess, and I suspect that it’s a different split for different people.

It's almost like children are the product of their parents. That parents pass on genes to their offspring. But what role could heredity possibly have in human behavior? Srly!
 
"Assume"? Who said it was an assumption?

Do you need to retain your worldview? Is it that fragile?

Hey, lookey there. Grist for the mill. Please, by all means start that thread. I can't wait to psychoanalyze what's no doubt floating around in there.

Good grief. Was presuming you were joking about being the everlasting know-it-all. But you really are that guy.
 
Simple... the answer is the same as the need for traffic signals. Individuals can manage things quite easily. Groups of people are incapable of managing things.
I agree with this sentiment more strongly than I would have expected. You and I almost never agree on things.




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About as strongly as I expected. I'm still curious as to why traffic signals, which are agreed-upon mechanisms that only work because everybody knows what they mean and expects everyone else to know what they mean, are somehow an example of individuals managing themselves rather than a perfect illustration of what groups of people can accomplish through mutual trust and participation in public life. Jimmy's assertion that people only obey traffic lights because they're afraid of the cops is just laughable. They're not afraid of the cops, they're afraid of getting smashed by an oncoming car, and the best way to avoid that is to follow the traffic signals. It's better for each individual to adhere to a set of rules that applies to them all collectively, and makes individual behavior more predictable as a result.
In general, the most important part of traffic signals is to maintain traffic. Little traffic, lights aren’t needed. More traffic, then you start needing lights... or rotary which is as libertarian traffic design can get. But even rotaries get overwhelmed, hence lights and turn offs.

In other words, the more people you have, the more regulating of their behavior is needed. Else things will become a mess.
 
"Assume"? Who said it was an assumption?

Do you need to retain your worldview? Is it that fragile?

Hey, lookey there. Grist for the mill. Please, by all means start that thread. I can't wait to psychoanalyze what's no doubt floating around in there.

Good grief. Was presuming you were joking about being the everlasting know-it-all. But you really are that guy.

Well, there's one way to find out. Start the thread and tell us about your childhood.

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I think you put far more weight on nurture than is supportable. I’d guess that about 75% of what makes me me is innate, either genetic or epigenetically influenced. Only about 25% is from social factors. The window through which I see the world is nurture (it’s part of what defines generational differences), but the house in which that window resides is most likely inherent. Of course, that’s just a guess, and I suspect that it’s a different split for different people.

It's almost like children are the product of their parents. That parents pass on genes to their offspring. But what role could heredity possibly have in human behavior? Srly!

So, you too presumably believe that your vote is hereditary?
 
So, the way you vote was genetically transferred?
Wait... where did voting come into this? For fucks sake, Koy, you are more than your vote.
Personally, I have never met a single person where that statement is true (and I include myself in that and I had--by almost every standard I've seen demonstrated in other people's stories--a comparatively Brady Bunch happy childhood).

Many people are typically not aware of anything traumatic, but that's a different matter.

Lil, wut? We’ve all been traumatized, we just don’t know it? What the hell kind of repressed memories bullshit is this? And at what point did you become such a psychological expert that you feel qualified to make such sweeping statements?


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The effects (good and bad) of nurture become more apparent as I get older. It's a much bigger deal than I thought, even 10-15 years ago.
At <25 years of age, I discounted it almost entirely. I was wrong.

Without getting too Freudian about it all, I agree. I'm realizing more and more that we are actually born "backwards" and that childhood is actually when we are the wisest as it is only in infancy that we are fully and completely "in the now" as it were. Everything else is stored clutter. It's like we start out with this great big beautiful empty space and then spend the rest of our lives filling it with shit we either don't need or don't really want. Periodically we clean it and purge some of the junk, but for the most part, we're just pack rats.

But I digress :D

Koy, I think you might want to consider laying off the static’s for a bit, buddy.


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. Please, by all means start that thread. I can't wait to psychoanalyze what's no doubt floating around in there.
Exactly what qualifications do you have with which to psychoanalyze anyone? Why should any of us give your opinion on this even an eyelash if credence?



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