when you have sex with your wife do you worry about getting disease? how about prostitute ?
I can marry a prostitute and do both.
Risky behavior is unsafe. But that's a matter of precautions and risk assessment.
You said sex outside of marriage is bad.
I had sex with my current wife outside of marriage. I had sex with her within the bonds of holy matrimony AND recognized by the state. It's the same sex.
It's the same risk assessment as far as STD's, kids, angry husbands, and anything else that conflates 'bad' with 'risky.'
There's nothing more
bad about one than there was about the other.
You're going pretty far afield to try to justify 'scared God will punish me' is equal to 'scared it will rot and fall off.' As usual, Syed, you mix apples and applets.