While I was out of the office for surgery, someone took over one of my collateral duties.
They appear to have lost about 12 years of records. Turns out they just filed it in the completely wrong place on the completely inappropriate server.
But when I first went to access the data where it was supposed to be (and has been for about 13 years), I was nonplussed to see the big empty nothing where data should be.
While looking for it, I mumbled, 'No! No, no, no, no, no!' and 'Please be here! Or here? Okay, here?"
Nimrod asked who I was praying to.
"It's not a prayer. A 'prayer' would mean that I believed an intelligence with supernatural power to order the universe, and alter reality, was inclined to intercede on my behalf as my sphincter clenched tight enough to a wooden dowel."
"But," he pointed out, "you still asked for help. That means you're not an atheist. It's human nature to pray for help in a crisis."
"IT is," I agreed. "It's also human nature to try to negotiate with a vending machine to please, please, please take my not-crisp dollar bill so I can have a soda. It's human nature to try to give orders to my car when it won't start right away. And human nature to punish the hammer while my thumb bleeds. And I have a very clear picture in my mind that my teddy bear is pretty jealous. So if I cuddle my and my wife's bears at the same time, Tapioca has to be closer to me than Cocoa or he gets upset." He was rapidly backing out of my cube at this point.
I followed him rather than raise my voice.
"But, push comes to shove, I do NOT really believe my teddy bear has emotions, or my hammer has malignant plans, or my car is afraid of me, or that vending machines respond to sincerity. Nor do I think that there's a god, anywhere, who will restore the file that J-hole lost simply because I vented off some emotional stress at the prospect of recreating a decade's record keeping."
The argument's not that offensive, just facile and shallow interpretation of the human tendency to see agency in random events. But the smug grin he sported while saying 'I bet you didn't even notice you're not an atheist' as if he'd caught me cheating on my wife or my diet...