Phillips isn’t objecting on the basis he is sending a message of approval, at least nothing I’ve read states Phillips’ refusal was because he would be sending a message of approval. Even if this is true, the objection need not rest solely on this as a fact, and there’s another fact his objection can rest upon. The other fact is he is enaged in speech that symbolically recognizes the customer as trans, recognizing the date of transition, and the cake is a celebration, or as you say a symbolical “approval” of the transition and their identity as a transgender, regardless of whether he approves of the message or not.
And a fundamental principle of free speech is the government cannot compel people to speak (save for maybe govnerment employees acting in their capacity as an official/employee of the government). You want to allow the government to compel messages you deem appropriate, and preclude a right not to speak if the motive and reason to. Or speak is one you personally dislike. That’s not free speech.
I feel as if I am talking to some white racist in 1960 when segregation was legal droning on and on about separate but equal.
Well, this is evidence your “feelings” are wrong. I have brown skin, black hair, brown eyes, and I’m an ethnic minority. So, go screw yourself with your F’d up “feelings” of who I am, conceived, no doubt, in a pool of ignorance as to who I might be and who I am.
The ignorance here is you can’t accept as reality, as a possible fact, that people might disagree with you who aren’t white, who aren’t racists, and who aren’t anything close to segregationists. Hence, your “feeling” of who you are taking too. It’s completely unfathomable to you that some people, yes people who aren’t white, aren’t racists, may just be basing in free speech principles.
Your porous logic would have the Cuban phenomenon in Florida, specifically Miami-Dade county, where Trump’s approval rating increased, permitting a “feeling” they are just like white racists supporting segregation in the 60s, since Trump appears that way to some people. And that would ignore the palpable reality they support Trump because the Dems appear to them as closer to the freedom killing Socialist regime they fled, and not because they favor a white racist
who supported segregation.