When I was a child my father said I had to (commanded me to) hold his hand while crossing the road. He also commanded me not to talk to strangers. And he forbade me from attempting joy rides in the family car. I was expressly forbidden from going near the fire place/matches or boiling water.
Yesterday I crossed the road without holding his or anyone else's hand, I freely spoke to strangers. I drove a car to and from my destination and when I got home I lit the fire and boiled a kettle of water.
Now. Did I break any of his numerous commandments?
Sorry? What's that you say? Some laws are just temporary?
http://absnospin.blogspot.com.au/2008/02/casuistic-law-vs-apodictic-law.html
So, can you tell us fallible human beings how we are to determine which of God's laws are relative, situational and temporary, and thus can safely be ignored without risking hellfire; and which ones are absolute and eternal, never to be broken without incurring God's wrath?
(Speaking from your own fallible humanity, and knowing about such things as literalists and Westboro Baptist Church, of course.)